Life's Best Tips Of All Time (according to me and Quora)

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1. Not having taken enough photos with the people you love.

2. Wasting years worrying about what others think of you.

3. Letting fear keep you from chasing your dreams.

4. Not telling anyone how much he or she means to you.

5. Staying in a toxic relationship for too long.

6. Taking your parents' time for granted.

7. Waiting for the "perfect moment" that never comes.

8. Not putting yourself first when you should.

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1. If a person starts shaking their leg as long as they sit down, they are intelligent.

2. If a person talks to themselves often, they have a sharp mind and deep thoughts.

3. If someone prefers staying quiet in a group, they are usually the smartest observer.

4. If a person gets bored easily, their brain craves higher intellectual stimulation.

5. If someone laughs at dark humor, they have a high IQ and advanced thinking skills.

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The ‘3-word rule’ that makes ChatGPT give expert-level responses,
the concept is simple: Add a short, three-word directive to your prompt that tells ChatGPT how to respond. These three words can instantly shape the tone, voice and depth of the output. You’re not rewriting your whole question. You’re just giving the AI a lens through which to answer:

1. “Like a lawyer” — for structured, detailed and logical responses

2. “Be a teacher” — for simplified, clear and educational explanations

3. “Act like Hemingway” — for punchy, minimalist writing with impact

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HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF

1. Stop begging others.

2. Stop saying more than necessary.

3. Stop looking for who is not looking for you.

4. Invest in yourself and make yourself happy.

5. Stop entertaining gossip about other people.

6. When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.

7. Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.

8. Always look your best; dress the way you should be addressed.

9. Reduce how often you visit some people, especially if they don't reciprocate

10. Think before you talk; 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.

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You may need to hear this:

1. People aren't against you, they are for themselves.

2. Climb mountains. Not so the world can see you but so you can see the world.

3. You learn more from failure than from success. Don't let it stop you; failure builds character.

4. The most dangerous risk of all is the risk of spending your life not doing what you want.

5. Go where you're celebrated, not where you're tolerated.

6. The person you'll spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so you better try to make yourself as interesting as possible.

7. If you accept your limitations, you go beyond.

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Someone asked a friend who has crossed 70 & is heading towards 80 what sort of changes he is feeling in himself? He sent  the following:

1. After loving my parents, my siblings, my spouse, my children and my friends, I have now started loving myself.

2. I have realized that I am not “Atlas”. The world does not rest on my shoulders.

3. I have stopped bargaining with vegetable & fruit vendors. A few pennies more is not going to break me, but it might help the poor fellow save for his daughter’s school fees.

4. I leave my waitress a big tip. The extra money might bring a smile to her face. She is toiling much harder for a living than I am.

5. I stopped telling the elderly that they've already told that story many times. The story makes them walk down memory lane & relive their past.

6. I have learned not to correct people even when I know they are wrong. The onus of making everyone perfect is not on me. Peace is more precious than perfection.

7. I give compliments freely & generously. Compliments are a mood enhancer not only for the recipient, but also for me. And a small tip for the recipient of a compliment, never, NEVER turn it down, just say "Thank You.”

8. I have learned not to bother about a crease or a spot on my shirt. Personality speaks louder than appearances.

9. I walk away from people who don't value me. They might not know my worth, but I do.

10. I remain cool when someone plays dirty to outrun me in the rat race. I am not a rat & neither am I in any race.

11. I am learning not to be embarrassed by my emotions. It’s my emotions that make me human.

12. I have learned that it's better to drop the ego than to break a relationship. My ego will keep me aloof, whereas with relationships, I will never be alone.

13. I have learned to live each day as if it's the last. After all, it might be the last.

14. I am doing what makes me happy. I am responsible for my happiness, and I owe it to myself; Happiness is a choice. You can be happy at any time, just choose to be !

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FROM AGE 18-55, KNOW THIS:

1. Take care of your body. Remember health is another form of wealth.

2. Normalize walking some paths alone because goals are personal.

3. Don't waste your energy to fear. Use your energy to believe, learn, create, and grow.

4. If you want to be happy, always have zero expectations of others.

5. Tell no one about your plans, level up in private.

6. You won't be young forever, do what makes you happy every day.

7. Be mature enough to control your emotions. Learn to react less.

8. Free yourself from the society advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

9. Don't try to change anyone. Change how you deal with them.

10. Your circle is supposed to be proud, not jealous.

11. Do yourself a favor, get rich; Life gets easier with money not time.

12. Master self discipline and consistency and watch your life change.

13. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

14. Don't go broke trying to impress broke people.

15. Be smart enough to realize nobody got rich with a salary.

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8 ways to deal with people…

1. Silence reveals true intentions, just observe and listen. People will show who they really are.

2. Never tell everyone everything, you might be educating the enemy.

3. Be smart enough to walk away from negative people.

4. In the end, it's up to you to decide what you want. Don't let fear paralyze you.

5. Use the power of your mind to empower your life but don't fall for charlatans.

6. Stop being a people pleaser. Trying to make everyone happy never works. Know you're where you're meant to be.

7a. Saying "Yes" when you mean "No" hurts you, so:

7b. Saying "No" is the best form of self-care.

8. Put yourself first because people will straight up waste your time and energy and you can't get it back.

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Eight Important Truths:

1. No one wants to be with a man who has no ambition.

2. It gets harder to break bad habits as you get older.

3. Constant complaining only adds stress and pushes friends away.

4. Learning never stops unless you stop challenging yourself.

5. Your parents probably won’t change, no matter how many deep talks you have.

6. Being kind or polite doesn’t mean a woman owes you anything.

7. Don’t take life too seriously, people aren’t drawn to those who are always angry or upset.

8. It’s never too late. Life can change anytime, so don’t believe you’re too old or limited to reach your goals.

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10 Easy Health Tips for a Happier, Healthier You:

1. Stay Hydrated – Make it a habit to drink enough water daily for your health and energy boost.

2. Prioritize Sleep – Aim for 7–9 hours of quality sleep each night to feel your best.

3. Eat Nutrient-Dense Foods – Choose whole foods, lean proteins, healthy fats, and fiber-rich options.

4. Move Your Body Daily – Incorporate regular exercise to enhance your mood, energy, and lifespan.

5. Manage Stress Effectively– Use mindfulness, meditation, or deep breathing techniques to keep balanced.

6.Limit Processed Foods & Sugar – Cut back on junk food to improve your gut health and overall energy.

7. Get Sunlight & Fresh Air – Spend some time outdoors to boost your mood and increase your vitamin D.

8. Maintain Healthy Relationships– Surround yourself with uplifting and supportive individuals.

9. Practice Gratitude & Positivity – Shift your mindset to improve your mental and emotional well-being.

10. Listen to Your Body – Take time to rest, nourish yourself properly, and make self-care a priority.

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15 HEALTH BENEFITS OF BEING ALONE:

1. The less you share, the less likely people will be in your business.

2. You'll slowly stop caring about people's opinion on you.

3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you.

4. If everyone is your friend, you have a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information

5. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy, and more time alone.

6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key, and telling no one about your life.

7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals.

8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level.

9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely.

10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack.

11. People will want to know more about you when you talk less about yourself.

12. People don't care so much about you. They only care about what you can offer.

13. You'll owe no one any explanation about your personal life.

14. Not everyone is your friend, live a private life to never attract bad energy.

15. You'll learn when to be alone and when to be with others.

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Some interesting things psychology can tell you about someone just by watching or looking at them:

1. Your personality type is revealed by your punctuality: If you’re reaching everywhere late then you have “Type B (flexible, relaxed, laid-back attitude)”. If you’re reaching everywhere on time, then you have “Type A (competitive, aggressive, achievement-oriented)”.

2. Your eating habits reveal lot about how you approach life: Slow eaters like to be in control and appreciate life. Fast eaters are ambitious, adventurous, & impatient. Picky eaters are neurotic in different areas of life. Those who separate food in their plate, are detail-oriented & disciplined.

3. How Controlling a person can be revealed by their Inbox: Those who start organizing their emails, the moment they receive it, like to have control & order in their lives. Those who save the emails, even after reading them, are perfectionists, who think they make need it later. Lastly, those who don’t spend their time reading, filing, & deleting emails, are people who can easily get confused or overwhelmed.

4. Your Music interest reveals a lot about your personality:

A person who listens to “complex & reflective” music, is adventurous, has self-perceived intelligence, & political liberalism.

A person who listens to “conventional & upbeat” music, is athleticism, self-perceived physical attractiveness, & political conservatism.

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How to Earn Respect:

1. Do not call anyone more than twice.

2. Do not be more friendly with anyone than necessary.

3. Do not give knowledge without being asked.

4. Talk less, be secretive.

5. Do not let anyone know your next move.

6. Search for different streams to earn money and make money.

7. It's not necessary to make everyone happy

8. Do only what you think is right.

9. If someone has improved your life by adding value, do not forget to thank them


Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 05:12:24 AMMORE TIPS:

1. Those who do not look for you when you go quiet are the ones that do not miss you and those who don’t miss you, never cared about you in any case.

2. Life decides who walks into your life, yet it is your choice who stays in it.

3. The truth only hurts once. A lie hurts over and over.

4. Learn to take note of who gives the same as they get from you and those who treat you as an option only when they need something from you.

5. Those who hurt you teach you a lesson.

6. Those who criticize you make you more determined.

7. Those who are jealous of you make you important.

8. People will learn the hard way that those who wish you the worst will have to watch while the best happens to you.


Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 05:16:43 AMADVICE FROM OLD PEOPLE:

1. The most important person in your life is the person who agreed to share their life with you. Treat them as such.

2. You might live a long life, or you might live a short one — who knows. But either way, trust me when I say that you’re going to wish you took better care of yourself in your youth.

3. Stuff is just stuff. Don’t hold onto material objects, hold onto time and experiences instead.

4. Jealousy destroys relationships. Trust your significant other, because who else are you supposed to trust?

5. People always say, “Make sure you get a job doing what you love!” But that isn’t the best advice. The right job is the job you love some days, can tolerate most days, and still pays the bills. Almost nobody has a job they love every day.

6. If you’re getting overwhelmed by life, just return to the immediate present moment and savour all that is beautiful and comforting. Take a deep breath, relax.

7. Years go by in the blink of an eye. Don’t marry young. Live your life. Go places. Do things. If you have the means or not. Pack a bag and go wherever you can afford to go. While you have no dependents, don’t buy stuff. Any stuff. See the world. Look through travel magazines and pick a spot. GO!

8. Don’t take life so seriously. Even if things seem dark and hopeless, try to laugh at how ridiculous life is.

9. A true friend will come running if you call them at 2am. Everyone else is just an acquaintance.

10. Children grow up way too fast. Make the most of the time you have with them.

11. Nobody ever dies wishing they had worked more. Work hard, but don’t prioritize work over family, friends, or even yourself.

12. Eat and exercise like you’re a diabetic heart patient with a stroke — so you never actually become one.

13. Maybe this one isn’t as profound as the others, but I think it’s important… Floss regularly, dental problems are awful.

14. Don’t take anyone else’s advice as gospel. You can ask for advice from someone you respect, then take your situation into consideration and make your own decision. Essentially, take your own advice is my advice…

15. The joints you damage today will get their revenge later. Even if you think they’ve recovered completely. TRUST ME!

16. We have one time on this earth. Don’t wake up and realize that you are 60 years old and haven’t done the things you dreamed about.

17. Appreciate the small things and to be present in the moment. What do I mean? Well, it seems today like younger people are all about immediate gratification. Instead, why not appreciate every small moment? We don’t get to stay on this crazy/wonderful planet forever and the greatest pleasure can be found in the most mundane of activities. Instead of sending a text, pick up the phone and call someone. Call your mother, have a conversation about nothing in particular. Those are the moments to hold onto.

18. Pay your bills and stay the hell out of debt. If I could have paid myself all the money I’ve paid out in interest over the years, I’d be retired already.

19. If you have a dream of being or doing something that seems impossible, try for it anyway. It will only become more impossible as you age and become responsible for other people.

And finally, the last piece of advice:

20. When you meet someone for the first time, stop and realize that you really know nothing about them. You see race, gender, age, clothes. Forget it all. You know nothing. Those biased assumptions that pop into your head because of the way your brain likes categories, are limiting your life, and other people’s lives.

Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 05:24:16 AMEasy Life Lessons We All Forget:

1. You feel lonely not because no one wants you, but because you care who is around you.

2. Don’t tell your friend what you wouldn’t want your enemy to know.

3. We love ourselves most, but we care more about what others think.

4. There are two ways to do things: the right way, or do it again.

5. It’s not your fault you’re hurt, but it’s your job to heal.

6. Letting go means leaving some past behind, not your future.

7. One day can change everything. Sometimes, even years change nothing.

8. If you never take a risk, you might lose even more.

9. Doing something quickly helps you feel less anxious
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10. Maybe: If you don’t say a word, you control it. If you say it, it controls you.

Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 05:35:12 AM19 Impossible To Ignore Hard Life Lessons That Pack Life Long Wisdom:

1. Never underestimate the power of stupid people.

2. You are right about all the things you think you need to do. Don’t wait—get started.

3. Knowledge is knowing that a tomato is a fruit. Wisdom is not putting it in a fruit salad.

4. Circumstances make man, not man’s circumstances.

5. Sometimes, it’s a blessing to not get what you want.

6. It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for something you are not.

7. People will say almost anything when they’re happy. Be wise and careful of this.

8. Dead people receive more flowers than the living ones because regret is stronger than gratitude.

9. A goal is a dream with a deadline.

10. Be proud you survived the days you thought you couldn’t.

11. Worry is the ultimate bully. It takes everything and gives nothing. Let go or be dragged.

12. Great results can be achieved with small forces.

13. When thinking about life, remember: No amount of guilt can change the past, and no amount of anxiety can change the future.

14. No one is going to figure out your life. It’s your responsibility.

15. Rejection is important for self-development.

16. Your mind gives up a lot faster than your body.

17. Leave nothing for tomorrow which can be done today.

18.  Not everyone will like you—that’s life. You’ll ruin your life trying to make everyone happy.

19. Love your neighbor as yourself.

Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 05:45:31 AMEVEN MORE ADVICE:

1. There’s no perfect time. Waiting too long only makes you stressed. Just start now.

2. You can’t change the past. Worrying about it is a waste of time.

3. Words can hurt a lot. Mean words stay in people’s hearts. Say things that lift others up.

4. Failing makes us sad. Success can make us proud. Stay kind in both good and bad times.

5. Wanting a perfect life can make you unhappy. Let go of “shoulds” and enjoy what you have.

6. Phones and screens stop real connection. Talk to people in person and listen to their stories.

7. We judge ourselves by what we think, but others by what they do. Be someone people like to be around.

8. You may give a lot and get nothing back. Some people don’t give like you do—and that’s okay.

9. No one owes you anything. Take back control of your life and stop blaming others.

10. We all die one day. Live with purpose and fix broken relationships while you still can.

11. Every good thing comes with a cost. Ask yourself: what are you willing to give to get what you want?

12. Even if someone else caused the problem, it’s your job to fix it. Focus on what you can do next.

13. Being too comfortable is dangerous. Take risks, even when the road is hard but take care gambling !

14. Real justice is rare. Many people get hurt chasing what they think is “fair.”

15. You start to dislike yourself when you break your promises. Keep your word to feel proud of who you are.

16. Sometimes you must remove toxic friends. It’s okay to protect your peace.

17. Good things take time. Don’t expect quick results—keep working at it.

18. Not everyone will support you. Some will doubt or hate. Ignore them and follow your heart.

Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 05:59:23 AMSomeone-who-is-wise's perspective

1. Take care of your health because it's the most valuable thing.

2. It's okay to walk alone towards your goals; it's your journey.

3. Don't expect too much from others; focus on what makes you happy.

4. Fear uses up energy; use it to believe in yourself and learn and grow.

7. Being mature means controlling your reactions and not overreacting.

10. Have supportive friends who cheer you on, not those who get jealous.

11. Having money makes life easier, so work towards financial stability.

12. Being consistent and disciplined can lead to big changes in your life.

13. Choose your friends wisely; they can be more important than family.

14. Don't spend too much trying to impress people who don't matter.

15. Making money often comes from starting your own projects, not just from jobs.

16. Protect your peace of mind by staying away from negativity.


Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 06:02:21 AM11 smart habits that will earn you respect !:

1. Be authentic, don't just agree.

2. Speak with confidence and clarity, slow down.

3. Show genuine interest, be present.

4. Stay calm, embrace your natural confidence.

5. Lighten up, enjoy the moment.

6. Take up space, project confidence.

7. Discuss challenging topics, speak your truth.

8. Listen without interrupting.

9. Be present, avoid overthinking.

10. Don't react to criticism, stay composed.

11. Focus on the process, not just the outcome.

If you got here, congrats! You're among the top 1% who complete what they begin

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This will be my last set of tips for a while - thanks, Quora for most of the source material (with the odd edit by myself).

The best way to live a peaceful life:

1. Don’t cry for someone who hurts you. Just smile and say, "Thank you for letting me find someone better!"

2. Don’t be mad at jealous people; they envy you because they think you’re greater than them.

3. Don’t spend time trying to get back at others. Those who hurt you will face their own consequences in time.

4. Keep your plans a secret. Show everyone the results instead.

5. Your feelings aren’t for sale, so don’t show them off. Just show your attitude instead.

6. Don’t give up. Your time to shine will come; it just takes a little while.

7. If you help someone expecting something back, you’re not being kind; you’re making a deal.

8. Trust is really important, but if it’s broken, just saying "sorry" isn’t enough.

9. Remember, where you are now isn’t where you’ll always be. Better things are coming.

10. Don’t leave a good relationship for small faults. Everyone makes mistakes; love is more important than being perfect.

11. Don’t go to a funeral just to show you cared for someone. Show your care while they are still alive.

12. Don’t promise things when you’re happy, and don’t make decisions when you’re sad.

13. Don’t expect loyalty from people who can’t be honest with you.

14. Keep going! The start is usually the hardest part.

15. You won’t understand how precious a moment is until it’s gone. Treasure the good times before they become memories.

16. Finally, appreciation is a simple way to get what you don’t have. After reading something nice, remember to say, "Thank you for the message!" 

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I couldn't resist adding some more:

1. Never play with someone's feelings just for your happiness. You may win the game, but the risk is that you will surely lose the person for a lifetime.

2. Never stop to make yourself better. No matter what you know, the minute you stop building yourself, you begin to deteriorate.

3. Never think that you are not good enough. In life, people will take you for what or how you present yourself.

4. Never lose hope in life. To hope, is to breathe life, to free your mind from fear and pessimism and fill it with optimism and positive thinking. So, no matter how difficult your life gets, never deprive yourself of hope.

5. Never lose your self-respect. Self-respect is a form of self-care.

6. Never beg for opportunities. Snatch them. When you beg for opportunities (including jobs), you will be seen as inexperienced and of low value. It is much better to have confident in the value you have to offer than to beg.

7. Never take anyone or anything in life for granted. Taking things for granted is considered irresponsible, even damaging. Taking your spouse for granted is a surefire way to make them feel unloved. Taking your income for granted can put you at financial risk if you lose your job. Taking your health for granted can lead you to take poor care of yourself.

8. Even if the world takes advantage of you, never let the good in you d!e.

Post Merged: July 03, 2025, 07:40:29 AMWhat Real Confidence Means:

1. Confidence isn't thinking you'll always win. It's being okay if you don't.

2. People don't notice your flaws unless you point them out. Don't talk about your fears so much.

3. Loud people aren't always confident. True confidence is calm and quiet.

4. Don't explain too much. Say what you need and be silent.

5. You don't have to feel confident to act confident. Acting comes first, feeling comes later.

6. Chasing approval scares respect away. Seeking validation is loud; self-respect is quiet.

7. Looking unsure is worse than being wrong. People trust people who believe in themselves.