Life's Best Tips Of All Time (according to me and Quora)

[Chip (OP)]

● If you want someones attention start the conversation off by saying "I am not supposed to be telling you this"

● If you want someone to tell the truth get them to laugh before questioning

● If you have anxiety while talking to someone chew some gum it tricks your brain into acting calm

● If you are in an argument stay as calm as possible and when they are done stay silent and stare at them it will piss them off so much

● If someone interrupts you while you are talking carry on talking they're gonna feel awkward and shut up

● Trying to hold back your thoughts about someone make you miss them even more

● Life becomes more meaningful when you realise you never get the same moment twice

● If you want to check if someones looking at you yawn then look back at them, if they yawn back they were looking at you

● You are more likely to achieve your goals if you keep it to yourself and write about it

● You appear more attractive to others when you make them laugh or smile

● Studies show using hand gestures while speaking makes vou seem more trust worthy and desirable

● Cheaters tend to think everyone cheats, liars think that everyone lies

- Quora

[smfadmin]

Some of the easiest psychological tricks to play on other:

● Saying 'You're right!' instead of 'I know' makes you look less like an asshole and doesn't diminish something someone else may have just found out.

● When somebody shy is speaking, if you look at them and nod your head, it encourages them to keep talking.

● Instead of asking, 'Do you have any questions?' ask, 'What questions do you have?' The first almost always results in silence, while the second helps people feel comfortable asking questions.

● If you need to deescalate someone and get them to communicate, ask them questions about numbers or personal information

● When you have something important to say to your kids, say it very quietly so that they listen. They're immune to your yelling, but whispering gets their attention.

● To avoid workplace drama and be liked, compliment people behind their back

● Say hello to everybody you know, and say it with as so little effort for a person to find you friendly!

[smfadmin]

Important life facts to know as early as possible in life:

Know that your only competition is who you were yesterday.

Earn, save and invest before you spend.

Avoid negative people, life is too short.

If you don't go after what you want, you will never get it.

Everyone you love is going to die.

We give our lives meaning. If you feel like life is meaningless, that's your fault.

The perfect partner doesn't exist.

Concentrate on finding someone who has a lot of qualities you like and the same values and build a fantastic relationship.

Life is a game. Find the games you want to play, learn the rules, and find a way to be successful at the games you selected.

Everything ends. Youth, love, life, all ends, and that's what makes them valuable.

Be romantic about little things.

Be a realist about the big things. Life isn't a movie, you need to have a plan, have an artist's ambition, but an engineer's mindset.

Figure out a way or don't complain.

See failure as a beginning, not an end.

Our habits decide our future.

[smfadmin]

1. Not everyone will like you for being a good person.

2. People will hate you just because other people like you.

3. If you don't learn to say no, you will keep doing the things that people say.

4. Life will only give you what you deserve.

5. If you are talented then also you have to work hard.

6. No matter who you are there will always be someone who will hate you.

7. You will repeat your own mistakes many times.

8. There will be someone who will love you no matter what.

9. Relatives can be your enemies sometimes.

10. Age doesn't define maturity.

11. The situation will force you to leave everything but that time defines you.

12. Self love matters a lot. If you love yourself then you don't need anyone else for anything. You can make yourself happy.

Thank you for reading 😊

[Chip (OP)]

I'm guilty of this but its not too late for you

1. Don't tell people your plans.
They will sabotage you.

2. Don't tell people your weaknesses.
They will use them against you.

3. Don't tell people your failures.
They will always see you as a failure and never give you the opportunity.

4. Don't tell people your next big move. Move in silence, Take action , and shock them with your results.

5. Don't tell people your secrets.
Only a fool reveals secrets.

6. Don't tell people your income or the source of your income. 
Always make them wonder.

7. Don't be too quick in telling your new partner that you love them.
It may overwhelm them, scare them off or they may not believe you.

[Chip (OP)]

1. "He who does not understand your silence

will probably not understand your words."

2. "Open your mouth only if what you are going to say is more beautiful than silence.

3. "Have the maturity to know that sometimes silence is more powerful than having the final Word"

4. "Silence is the best reply to a fool."

5. "When you build in silence, they don't know what to attack."

6. "Silence is always better than nonsense.

7. "Silence is the best answer to someone who doesn't value your words.

8. "Successful people always have only two things on their lips: silence and smile.""

9. "Confuse them with your silence, amaze them with your actions.""

10. "Silence is always better than unnecessary drama. "

[smfadmin]

1. Don’t become dependent on any person.

2. No one is going to stay with you forever.

3. Today’s friend could be tomorrow’s enemy.

4. Your secrets are like bullets; if you give them to others, one day they might load those bullets into a gun and use them against you.

5. There are only three things you can always rely on that won’t disappoint you: your pocket, your health, and above all, your God.

6. Keep your needs and desires secret from others.

7. Not everyone who talks to you with a smile loves you.

8. Not everyone who calls you “dear,” “beloved,” or “friend” truly cares about you (TV anchors call us "dear viewers" every day, but they don’t know or love any of us).

9. Take care of yourself... make your mind and heart the source of your happiness, and you will never regret it!

10. Enjoy life by being a little crazy because wise people die early!

11. Pursue your small hobbies and passions, even if they seem trivial to others.

12. Never seek a crutch for yourself.

13. Just because you are kind and empathetic to others, don’t expect the world to treat you the same way.

14. One day, you will realize that you worried more than you needed to... and that God had arranged everything perfectly for you, giving you things you never even hoped or wished for.
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1. Look at the shoulder nearest to you when someone is crossing your path. Most of the time, they will move aside.

2. Coffee delay 1 to 2 hours after waking up. This enables adenosine to be eliminated by cortisol, potentially resulting in energy that lasts into the afternoon.

3. Mouth breathing damages oral health, interferes with sleep, and can lead to sleep apnea. I was able to solve this by using nighttime mouth taping.

4. To improve your sleep, apply the 321 technique. Three hours before bed, avoid eating. Two hours prior, no beverages. An hour prior, no screens.

5. A person's treatment of service employees reveals a lot about their character.

6. Be the most stupid person in the room. Work out at the gym where you are least fit.

7. To improve muscle contraction when lifting weights, employ your mind-muscle link.

8. The largest dental fraud is mouthwash. destroys the bacteria in your mouth. Stay away.

9. You get your best ideas when you're walking, taking a shower, or working out. Prepare a notepad.

10. One-third of your life is spent sleeping. Discover how to maximize it and make it as fantastic as you can.

[smfadmin]

1. Quiet people talk a lot inside of their heart, sometimes they talk alone.

2. Once they get comfortable with you they get crazy and wild.

3. They speak in thoughts and heart.

4. They are shy, they can't maintain eye contact a lot.

5. They have too much anger don't get them pissed off. And they know how to micromanage their anger issues.

6. They are strong and very intelligent.

7. They are very crazy on social media (sometimes)

8. They have very cool personalities and are fun to be with.

9. Their minds are always calculating, they are overthinking too much. Bad things and good things. That's how I have noticed.

10. They are loyal and love the most in relationships. When quite people they are in a relationship they love you wholeheartedly. They love deep. But if they don't love you, they leave you completely due to their love is very strong.

11. They never show their pain, and they are emotional people.

12. Some of them are depressed and alone but they pretend, deep down they feel like to be alone, they are introvert people.

13. They've got the cutest smile and weirdest laughter.

14. Most of them they like facts, and they are honest.

15. Quiet people are likely to be secretive, also they hide many things, but if you want to make them feel uncomfortable nor melancholy they will tell the truth as it is without any fear.

16. Quiet people are introverts they are actually happy when they are alone. As long as they are busy with what they love. It's okay.

17. Quiet people, and introvert people create their own scenes in their mind and believe them.

18. Quiet people, and introverted people they love to read. Reading books, especially novels both fiction and nonfiction books. Sometimes inspirational books (self help books).

[Chip (OP)]

1. As a man, you must never run out of options

No matter if it is in dating or business opportunities.

Build yourself up and make yourself irreplaceable,

That's how as a man you can be part of 1%.

2. Never let other people kill your dreams

Never give control of your life to someone else,

You will need up nowhere.

You need to realize that people don't want you to surpass them,

They want you to stay with them where they are and live an average comfortable life.

3. Stop waiting for the right opportunity

If opportunities don't come,

Go out and hunt for them because not everything in life goes as planned.

And nothing is going to happen,

When you don't take any action towards your goal.

4. Focus on progress not perfection

The path you will be on is full of fear, depression and anxiety.

Have no expectations and just keep going.

Take each step day by day and enjoy the process,

The reason BILLIONS of people lose is because all they think about is being perfect in every situation.

5. Stop complaining about the results

People always complain about the results that they should have,

But they don't realise that they haven't put in the work in the first place.

They need to realise that if they are working 6 hours a day,

Somebody else out there is working 12 hours a day.

6. Use your brain to your advantage

You can learn to store billions of memories in your brain,

So use it rather than filling it up with junk.

Start reading books because you can gain decades of knowledge in some hours,

The more you learn in your journey the more you will realise that you know nothing.

7. Never chase women let them chase you

Remember that she is part of the GAME and not the whole GAME,

Never let her 10$ beauty distract you from your purpose.

Make yourself so valuable that low value women can't afford you,

Women chase men who chase their purpose.

8. Stop relying on motivation

90% Man needs to get into the zone so they can start doing their work,

A high value man doesn't need to watch motivational reels to start his work.

He knows that no one is coming to pay his bills and he has to do everything by himself,

Remember that motivation is temporary and discipline is permanent.

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After sex, men want to sleep and women want to talk.

Men express their strongest feelings through the art of making love.

According to a survey, men can listen to their male friends for ages, but they can only listen to their girlfriend or wife for six minutes.

Most men love women with thicker and longer hair.

According to Psychological facts of the male study, males wearing shirts look more attractive than the ones wearing T-shirts.

Men hate asking for help most of the time and will avoid talking any help until they feel they can't do it by themselves.

Men don't like comparison and hate if any female will compare them to other males.

Men are physically strong but emotionally weak compared to women.

[smfadmin]

1. Being too friendly invites a lot of disrespect.

2. Sometimes it's not ego; It's self-respect.

3. In the end, you only have yourself.

4. Things end, people change, and life goes on.

5. It all starts with a dream.

6. Some goodbyes are good for your growth.

7. Listen to your heart, not to people's opinions.

8. A clear rejection is better than a fake promise.

9. Sometimes you win, sometimes you learn.

10. Respect tastes better than attention.

[smfadmin]

1. Never let anyone hear you complain. Your feelings are irrelevant to others, do what needs to be done with a smile on your face.

2. Act with irrational self-belief. It doesn't matter if others say you can't , since you know you can. Ignore their opinions, you can do anything.

3. Admit when you are wrong. You don't know everything. Own up to your mistakes as quickly as possible as it's the fastest way for you to learn.

4. Progress is made through iteration. If you claim you're going to do something, hold yourself responsible. Your reputation is your sole asset.

5. Control your emotions. Your emotions cloud your judgment. People will look to you for guidance andikes leadership. Don't react , be decisive.

6. Meaningful influence. Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs, and lead them.

[smfadmin]

1. Tendency to complain all the time or being negative is also unattractive.

2. Too much self-doubt or an overzealous desire for validation might reveal neediness.

3. Not considering other people's feelings is a manifestation of insensitivity.

4. Not easily able to connect or always interpret others wrongly builds a disconnection.

5. Talking more than others makes one a less important or less preferred human being for others.

6. Lieing or insincerity dissolves trust quickly.

7. Not caring about other people's personal boundaries and sentiments makes that human being unattractive as well.

[Chip (OP)]

To reiterate: Psychology says, There are 7 factors that can end someone's attraction to you, no matter how pretty you are.

1. Tendency to complain all the time or being negative is also unattractive.

2. Too much self-doubt or an overzealous desire for validation might reveal neediness.

3. Not considering other people's feelings is a manifestation of insensitivity.

4. Not easily able to connect or always interpret others wrongly builds a disconnection.

5. Talking more than others makes one a less important or less preferred human being for others.

6. Lieing or insincerity dissolves trust quickly.

7. Not caring about other people's personal boundaries and sentiments makes that human being unattractive as well.

[smfadmin]

12 THINGS YOU LEARN AS YOU GET OLDER

1. Friends, even the close ones, might not stay in your life forever.

2. The most important relationship is the one you have with yourself.

3. People notice the results, not how hard you worked for them.

4. It's normal to have heartache and fail sometimes.

5. Home is the best place to be.

6. Family and money are really important.

7. A good book is a great friend.

8. Moving around helps you feel less stressed.

9. Wasting time feeling sad or sorry won’t help you move forward.

10. What you want today might not matter to you tomorrow.

11. Your choices shape your life more than luck does.

12. Childhood is a special time in life.

[smfadmin]

1. Not having taken enough photos with the people you love.

2. Wasting years worrying about what others think of you.

3. Letting fear keep you from chasing your dreams.

4. Not telling anyone how much he or she means to you.

5. Staying in a toxic relationship for too long.

6. Taking your parents' time for granted.

7. Waiting for the "perfect moment" that never comes.

8. Not putting yourself first when you should.