Things we wish guys knew...

[Narkotikon]

The whole "I can make you straight" thing directed toward lesbians by some men (IME, usually conservative, ignorant rednecks) is really fucking stupid.

I second what Hero said: ask him if ramming a 12'' dildo up his ass would make him gay. 

Those guys are so fucking stupid that he'd probably interpret it as a proposition.  He'd think you were interested in him, and that he could somehow convince you during the process that ramming something up his ass was the wrong use of the dildo.   

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DoD, I'm glad I could provide some insight. 

[Chip]

Here's my opinion of the differences between gay boys and lesbian women: gay boys remain almost exclusively gay but many lesbians can move between heterosexuality and homosexuality.

[Narkotikon]

Here's my opinion of the differences between gay boys and lesbian women: gay boys remain almost exclusively gay but many lesbians can move between heterosexuality and homosexuality.

I think sexuality is on a continuum.  It's not black and white, although it can be that way for some. 

I know some gay guys who've chosen to sleep with women, to see what it's like.  IME, they've always said it didn't appeal to them.  They continued being gay afterward. 

I can see some lesbians wanting to experiment with a man, just to see what it's all about.  But I don't think most would be "converted," if any at all. 

Putting intercourse aside, I can see gay men or lesbian women being emotionally involved with the opposite sex.  I think that has more to do with emotions, and feeling that you really know / relate to / care for that person.  I don't think it's about sex at all.  I know I've felt somewhat romantic feelings toward women a few times in my past.  But I wasn't sexually attracted to them at all.  It was more like having a really good friend that I fell in love with. 

[Daughter of Dionysus]

Here's my opinion of the differences between gay boys and lesbian women: gay boys remain almost exclusively gay but many lesbians can move between heterosexuality and homosexuality.

I think sexuality is on a continuum.  It's not black and white, although it can be that way for some. 

I know some gay guys who've chosen to sleep with women, to see what it's like.  IME, they've always said it didn't appeal to them.  They continued being gay afterward. 

I can see some lesbians wanting to experiment with a man, just to see what it's all about.  But I don't think most would be "converted," if any at all. 

Putting intercourse aside, I can see gay men or lesbian women being emotionally involved with the opposite sex.  I think that has more to do with emotions, and feeling that you really know / relate to / care for that person.  I don't think it's about sex at all.  I know I've felt somewhat romantic feelings toward women a few times in my past.  But I wasn't sexually attracted to them at all.  It was more like having a really good friend that I fell in love with.

I've been in love with
A couple of women

I don't really know where I'm going with this
But...
I can remember being in like 5th grade
And knowing that I liked girls

Then again I've been with the same
Man for 15 years

[Chip]

^^^ proving my point, i reckon ...

[Daughter of Dionysus]

Idk, i don't think it's as easy as getting a vibe. I know plenty of women who can climax but it's a 30 minute plus effort to reach. Fuck all that. If you can't get me off in under 3 minutes, you suck in bed and there is no hope for you. I even have references to this fact. 

My personal opinion is how society views a woman who gets off. She must be easy if she cums like that and other such nonsense that women are looked upon. Not too mention all the hang ups one can have about their body. Women and men. It really takes shutting  off that annoying fucking voice in your head and be in the moment.


Other than that I have no qualms about what a man should know or not know. I'm lucky that I'm perfectly content with my partner. I believe we're all individuals. If I thought differently I'd be on the mindset that they're all worthless bastards, like my ex. With that option I'd either become asexual or a lesbian. Most likely the former.

I second this
If you can't make me com
In 3 mins
Shit I'll even give ya 4 mins
You suck

I've had some serious hang ups
About getting off
It used to be a control thing for me
I was never comfortable letting
A man make me cum
Until I got with my s/o
He's never acted as if it's a fuckin chore
Fuck that nonsense

Fuck Idk what I'm talking about

I guess I'm just trying
To see
How many fuckin times
I can say fuck in one  post

Fuck me
You fuckin fuck

[neighbor]

Having sex on your
Period
Is just fucking nasty
I have never
Would never
Let hero fuck me
When I'm bleeding



Do y'all know that something
Like 70% of women
Don't know how to have an orgasm?



Women need to learn how to masterbate
It's not that hard

you mean its not that wet 

and as far as the sex during her period thing, I think it can either be very passionate or very disgusting, depending on the type of people involved and the quality of their sheets

[Anti-hero]

Babe we did have a session
That one time in Tennessee
And although we didn't have intercourse
And you had a cork in your thingy
 You made me have one of the most awesome orgasms
I have ever had
Over the HeAd.
Never did that before oorthaur after
Fuck that maybe TMI
But you are awesome