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« Last post by Chip on June 18, 2025, 05:08:33 AM »How to Earn Respect:
1. Do not call anyone more than twice.
2. Do not be more friendly with anyone than necessary.
3. Do not give knowledge without being asked.
4. Talk less, be secretive.
5. Do not let anyone know your next move.
6. Search for different streams to earn money and make money.
7. It's not necessary to make everyone happy
8. Do only what you think is right.
9. If someone has improved your life by adding value, do not forget to thank them
Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 05:12:24 AM
MORE TIPS:
1. Those who do not look for you when you go quiet are the ones that do not miss you and those who don’t miss you, never cared about you in any case.
2. Life decides who walks into your life, yet it is your choice who stays in it.
3. The truth only hurts once. A lie hurts over and over.
4. Learn to take note of who gives the same as they get from you and those who treat you as an option only when they need something from you.
5. Those who hurt you teach you a lesson.
6. Those who criticize you make you more determined.
7. Those who are jealous of you make you important.
8. People will learn the hard way that those who wish you the worst will have to watch while the best happens to you.
Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 05:16:43 AM
ADVICE FROM OLD PEOPLE:
1. The most important person in your life is the person who agreed to share their life with you. Treat them as such.
2. You might live a long life, or you might live a short one — who knows. But either way, trust me when I say that you’re going to wish you took better care of yourself in your youth.
3. Stuff is just stuff. Don’t hold onto material objects, hold onto time and experiences instead.
4. Jealousy destroys relationships. Trust your significant other, because who else are you supposed to trust?
5. People always say, “Make sure you get a job doing what you love!” But that isn’t the best advice. The right job is the job you love some days, can tolerate most days, and still pays the bills. Almost nobody has a job they love every day.
6. If you’re getting overwhelmed by life, just return to the immediate present moment and savour all that is beautiful and comforting. Take a deep breath, relax.
7. Years go by in the blink of an eye. Don’t marry young. Live your life. Go places. Do things. If you have the means or not. Pack a bag and go wherever you can afford to go. While you have no dependents, don’t buy stuff. Any stuff. See the world. Look through travel magazines and pick a spot. GO!
8. Don’t take life so seriously. Even if things seem dark and hopeless, try to laugh at how ridiculous life is.
9. A true friend will come running if you call them at 2am. Everyone else is just an acquaintance.
10. Children grow up way too fast. Make the most of the time you have with them.
11. Nobody ever dies wishing they had worked more. Work hard, but don’t prioritize work over family, friends, or even yourself.
12. Eat and exercise like you’re a diabetic heart patient with a stroke — so you never actually become one.
13. Maybe this one isn’t as profound as the others, but I think it’s important… Floss regularly, dental problems are awful.
14. Don’t take anyone else’s advice as gospel. You can ask for advice from someone you respect, then take your situation into consideration and make your own decision. Essentially, take your own advice is my advice…
15. The joints you damage today will get their revenge later. Even if you think they’ve recovered completely. TRUST ME!
16. We have one time on this earth. Don’t wake up and realize that you are 60 years old and haven’t done the things you dreamed about.
17. Appreciate the small things and to be present in the moment. What do I mean? Well, it seems today like younger people are all about immediate gratification. Instead, why not appreciate every small moment? We don’t get to stay on this crazy/wonderful planet forever and the greatest pleasure can be found in the most mundane of activities. Instead of sending a text, pick up the phone and call someone. Call your mother, have a conversation about nothing in particular. Those are the moments to hold onto.
18. Pay your bills and stay the hell out of debt. If I could have paid myself all the money I’ve paid out in interest over the years, I’d be retired already.
19. If you have a dream of being or doing something that seems impossible, try for it anyway. It will only become more impossible as you age and become responsible for other people.
And finally, the last piece of advice:
20. When you meet someone for the first time, stop and realize that you really know nothing about them. You see race, gender, age, clothes. Forget it all. You know nothing. Those biased assumptions that pop into your head because of the way your brain likes categories, are limiting your life, and other people’s lives.
Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 05:24:16 AM
Easy Life Lessons We All Forget:
1. You feel lonely not because no one wants you, but because you care who is around you.
2. Don’t tell your friend what you wouldn’t want your enemy to know.
3. We love ourselves most, but we care more about what others think.
4. There are two ways to do things: the right way, or do it again.
5. It’s not your fault you’re hurt, but it’s your job to heal.
6. Letting go means leaving some past behind, not your future.
7. One day can change everything. Sometimes, even years change nothing.
8. If you never take a risk, you might lose even more.
9. Doing something quickly helps you feel less anxious
.
10. Maybe: If you don’t say a word, you control it. If you say it, it controls you.
Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 05:35:12 AM
19 Impossible To Ignore Hard Life Lessons That Pack Life Long Wisdom:
1. Never underestimate the power of stupid people.
2. You are right about all the things you think you need to do. Don’t wait—get started.
3. Knowledge is knowing that a tomato is a fruit. Wisdom is not putting it in a fruit salad.
4. Circumstances make man, not man’s circumstances.
5. Sometimes, it’s a blessing to not get what you want.
6. It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for something you are not.
7. People will say almost anything when they’re happy. Be wise and careful of this.
8. Dead people receive more flowers than the living ones because regret is stronger than gratitude.
9. A goal is a dream with a deadline.
10. Be proud you survived the days you thought you couldn’t.
11. Worry is the ultimate bully. It takes everything and gives nothing. Let go or be dragged.
12. Great results can be achieved with small forces.
13. When thinking about life, remember: No amount of guilt can change the past, and no amount of anxiety can change the future.
14. No one is going to figure out your life. It’s your responsibility.
15. Rejection is important for self-development.
16. Your mind gives up a lot faster than your body.
17. Leave nothing for tomorrow which can be done today.
18. Not everyone will like you—that’s life. You’ll ruin your life trying to make everyone happy.
19. Love your neighbor as yourself.
Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 05:45:31 AM
EVEN MORE ADVICE:
1. There’s no perfect time. Waiting too long only makes you stressed. Just start now.
2. You can’t change the past. Worrying about it is a waste of time.
3. Words can hurt a lot. Mean words stay in people’s hearts. Say things that lift others up.
4. Failing makes us sad. Success can make us proud. Stay kind in both good and bad times.
5. Wanting a perfect life can make you unhappy. Let go of “shoulds” and enjoy what you have.
6. Phones and screens stop real connection. Talk to people in person and listen to their stories.
7. We judge ourselves by what we think, but others by what they do. Be someone people like to be around.
8. You may give a lot and get nothing back. Some people don’t give like you do—and that’s okay.
9. No one owes you anything. Take back control of your life and stop blaming others.
10. We all die one day. Live with purpose and fix broken relationships while you still can.
11. Every good thing comes with a cost. Ask yourself: what are you willing to give to get what you want?
12. Even if someone else caused the problem, it’s your job to fix it. Focus on what you can do next.
13. Being too comfortable is dangerous. Take risks, even when the road is hard but take care gambling !
14. Real justice is rare. Many people get hurt chasing what they think is “fair.”
15. You start to dislike yourself when you break your promises. Keep your word to feel proud of who you are.
16. Sometimes you must remove toxic friends. It’s okay to protect your peace.
17. Good things take time. Don’t expect quick results—keep working at it.
18. Not everyone will support you. Some will doubt or hate. Ignore them and follow your heart.
Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 05:59:23 AM
Someone-who-is-wise's perspective
1. Take care of your health because it's the most valuable thing.
2. It's okay to walk alone towards your goals; it's your journey.
3. Don't expect too much from others; focus on what makes you happy.
4. Fear uses up energy; use it to believe in yourself and learn and grow.
7. Being mature means controlling your reactions and not overreacting.
10. Have supportive friends who cheer you on, not those who get jealous.
11. Having money makes life easier, so work towards financial stability.
12. Being consistent and disciplined can lead to big changes in your life.
13. Choose your friends wisely; they can be more important than family.
14. Don't spend too much trying to impress people who don't matter.
15. Making money often comes from starting your own projects, not just from jobs.
16. Protect your peace of mind by staying away from negativity.
Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 06:02:21 AM
11 smart habits that will earn you respect !:
1. Be authentic, don't just agree.
2. Speak with confidence and clarity, slow down.
3. Show genuine interest, be present.
4. Stay calm, embrace your natural confidence.
5. Lighten up, enjoy the moment.
6. Take up space, project confidence.
7. Discuss challenging topics, speak your truth.
8. Listen without interrupting.
9. Be present, avoid overthinking.
10. Don't react to criticism, stay composed.
11. Focus on the process, not just the outcome.
If you got here, congrats! You're among the top 1% who complete what they begin
1. Do not call anyone more than twice.
2. Do not be more friendly with anyone than necessary.
3. Do not give knowledge without being asked.
4. Talk less, be secretive.
5. Do not let anyone know your next move.
6. Search for different streams to earn money and make money.
7. It's not necessary to make everyone happy
8. Do only what you think is right.
9. If someone has improved your life by adding value, do not forget to thank them
Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 05:12:24 AM
MORE TIPS:
1. Those who do not look for you when you go quiet are the ones that do not miss you and those who don’t miss you, never cared about you in any case.
2. Life decides who walks into your life, yet it is your choice who stays in it.
3. The truth only hurts once. A lie hurts over and over.
4. Learn to take note of who gives the same as they get from you and those who treat you as an option only when they need something from you.
5. Those who hurt you teach you a lesson.
6. Those who criticize you make you more determined.
7. Those who are jealous of you make you important.
8. People will learn the hard way that those who wish you the worst will have to watch while the best happens to you.
Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 05:16:43 AM
ADVICE FROM OLD PEOPLE:
1. The most important person in your life is the person who agreed to share their life with you. Treat them as such.
2. You might live a long life, or you might live a short one — who knows. But either way, trust me when I say that you’re going to wish you took better care of yourself in your youth.
3. Stuff is just stuff. Don’t hold onto material objects, hold onto time and experiences instead.
4. Jealousy destroys relationships. Trust your significant other, because who else are you supposed to trust?
5. People always say, “Make sure you get a job doing what you love!” But that isn’t the best advice. The right job is the job you love some days, can tolerate most days, and still pays the bills. Almost nobody has a job they love every day.
6. If you’re getting overwhelmed by life, just return to the immediate present moment and savour all that is beautiful and comforting. Take a deep breath, relax.
7. Years go by in the blink of an eye. Don’t marry young. Live your life. Go places. Do things. If you have the means or not. Pack a bag and go wherever you can afford to go. While you have no dependents, don’t buy stuff. Any stuff. See the world. Look through travel magazines and pick a spot. GO!
8. Don’t take life so seriously. Even if things seem dark and hopeless, try to laugh at how ridiculous life is.
9. A true friend will come running if you call them at 2am. Everyone else is just an acquaintance.
10. Children grow up way too fast. Make the most of the time you have with them.
11. Nobody ever dies wishing they had worked more. Work hard, but don’t prioritize work over family, friends, or even yourself.
12. Eat and exercise like you’re a diabetic heart patient with a stroke — so you never actually become one.
13. Maybe this one isn’t as profound as the others, but I think it’s important… Floss regularly, dental problems are awful.
14. Don’t take anyone else’s advice as gospel. You can ask for advice from someone you respect, then take your situation into consideration and make your own decision. Essentially, take your own advice is my advice…
15. The joints you damage today will get their revenge later. Even if you think they’ve recovered completely. TRUST ME!
16. We have one time on this earth. Don’t wake up and realize that you are 60 years old and haven’t done the things you dreamed about.
17. Appreciate the small things and to be present in the moment. What do I mean? Well, it seems today like younger people are all about immediate gratification. Instead, why not appreciate every small moment? We don’t get to stay on this crazy/wonderful planet forever and the greatest pleasure can be found in the most mundane of activities. Instead of sending a text, pick up the phone and call someone. Call your mother, have a conversation about nothing in particular. Those are the moments to hold onto.
18. Pay your bills and stay the hell out of debt. If I could have paid myself all the money I’ve paid out in interest over the years, I’d be retired already.
19. If you have a dream of being or doing something that seems impossible, try for it anyway. It will only become more impossible as you age and become responsible for other people.
And finally, the last piece of advice:
20. When you meet someone for the first time, stop and realize that you really know nothing about them. You see race, gender, age, clothes. Forget it all. You know nothing. Those biased assumptions that pop into your head because of the way your brain likes categories, are limiting your life, and other people’s lives.
Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 05:24:16 AM
Easy Life Lessons We All Forget:
1. You feel lonely not because no one wants you, but because you care who is around you.
2. Don’t tell your friend what you wouldn’t want your enemy to know.
3. We love ourselves most, but we care more about what others think.
4. There are two ways to do things: the right way, or do it again.
5. It’s not your fault you’re hurt, but it’s your job to heal.
6. Letting go means leaving some past behind, not your future.
7. One day can change everything. Sometimes, even years change nothing.
8. If you never take a risk, you might lose even more.
9. Doing something quickly helps you feel less anxious
.
10. Maybe: If you don’t say a word, you control it. If you say it, it controls you.
Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 05:35:12 AM
19 Impossible To Ignore Hard Life Lessons That Pack Life Long Wisdom:
1. Never underestimate the power of stupid people.
2. You are right about all the things you think you need to do. Don’t wait—get started.
3. Knowledge is knowing that a tomato is a fruit. Wisdom is not putting it in a fruit salad.
4. Circumstances make man, not man’s circumstances.
5. Sometimes, it’s a blessing to not get what you want.
6. It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for something you are not.
7. People will say almost anything when they’re happy. Be wise and careful of this.
8. Dead people receive more flowers than the living ones because regret is stronger than gratitude.
9. A goal is a dream with a deadline.
10. Be proud you survived the days you thought you couldn’t.
11. Worry is the ultimate bully. It takes everything and gives nothing. Let go or be dragged.
12. Great results can be achieved with small forces.
13. When thinking about life, remember: No amount of guilt can change the past, and no amount of anxiety can change the future.
14. No one is going to figure out your life. It’s your responsibility.
15. Rejection is important for self-development.
16. Your mind gives up a lot faster than your body.
17. Leave nothing for tomorrow which can be done today.
18. Not everyone will like you—that’s life. You’ll ruin your life trying to make everyone happy.
19. Love your neighbor as yourself.
Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 05:45:31 AM
EVEN MORE ADVICE:
1. There’s no perfect time. Waiting too long only makes you stressed. Just start now.
2. You can’t change the past. Worrying about it is a waste of time.
3. Words can hurt a lot. Mean words stay in people’s hearts. Say things that lift others up.
4. Failing makes us sad. Success can make us proud. Stay kind in both good and bad times.
5. Wanting a perfect life can make you unhappy. Let go of “shoulds” and enjoy what you have.
6. Phones and screens stop real connection. Talk to people in person and listen to their stories.
7. We judge ourselves by what we think, but others by what they do. Be someone people like to be around.
8. You may give a lot and get nothing back. Some people don’t give like you do—and that’s okay.
9. No one owes you anything. Take back control of your life and stop blaming others.
10. We all die one day. Live with purpose and fix broken relationships while you still can.
11. Every good thing comes with a cost. Ask yourself: what are you willing to give to get what you want?
12. Even if someone else caused the problem, it’s your job to fix it. Focus on what you can do next.
13. Being too comfortable is dangerous. Take risks, even when the road is hard but take care gambling !
14. Real justice is rare. Many people get hurt chasing what they think is “fair.”
15. You start to dislike yourself when you break your promises. Keep your word to feel proud of who you are.
16. Sometimes you must remove toxic friends. It’s okay to protect your peace.
17. Good things take time. Don’t expect quick results—keep working at it.
18. Not everyone will support you. Some will doubt or hate. Ignore them and follow your heart.
Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 05:59:23 AM
Someone-who-is-wise's perspective
1. Take care of your health because it's the most valuable thing.
2. It's okay to walk alone towards your goals; it's your journey.
3. Don't expect too much from others; focus on what makes you happy.
4. Fear uses up energy; use it to believe in yourself and learn and grow.
7. Being mature means controlling your reactions and not overreacting.
10. Have supportive friends who cheer you on, not those who get jealous.
11. Having money makes life easier, so work towards financial stability.
12. Being consistent and disciplined can lead to big changes in your life.
13. Choose your friends wisely; they can be more important than family.
14. Don't spend too much trying to impress people who don't matter.
15. Making money often comes from starting your own projects, not just from jobs.
16. Protect your peace of mind by staying away from negativity.
Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 06:02:21 AM
11 smart habits that will earn you respect !:
1. Be authentic, don't just agree.
2. Speak with confidence and clarity, slow down.
3. Show genuine interest, be present.
4. Stay calm, embrace your natural confidence.
5. Lighten up, enjoy the moment.
6. Take up space, project confidence.
7. Discuss challenging topics, speak your truth.
8. Listen without interrupting.
9. Be present, avoid overthinking.
10. Don't react to criticism, stay composed.
11. Focus on the process, not just the outcome.
If you got here, congrats! You're among the top 1% who complete what they begin
