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Core Topics => Psychology and Psychiatry => Topic started by: Chip on February 28, 2025, 04:25:46 PM
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● If you want someones attention start the conversation off by saying "I am not supposed to be telling you this"
● If you want someone to tell the truth get them to laugh before questioning
● If you have anxiety while talking to someone chew some gum it tricks your brain into acting calm
● If you are in an argument stay as calm as possible and when they are done stay silent and stare at them it will piss them off so much
● If someone interrupts you while you are talking carry on talking they're gonna feel awkward and shut up
● Trying to hold back your thoughts about someone make you miss them even more
● Life becomes more meaningful when you realise you never get the same moment twice
● If you want to check if someones looking at you yawn then look back at them, if they yawn back they were looking at you
● You are more likely to achieve your goals if you keep it to yourself and write about it
● You appear more attractive to others when you make them laugh or smile
● Studies show using hand gestures while speaking makes vou seem more trust worthy and desirable
● Cheaters tend to think everyone cheats, liars think that everyone lies
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Some of the easiest psychological tricks to play on other:
● Saying 'You're right!' instead of 'I know' makes you look less like an asshole and doesn't diminish something someone else may have just found out.
● When somebody shy is speaking, if you look at them and nod your head, it encourages them to keep talking.
● Instead of asking, 'Do you have any questions?' ask, 'What questions do you have?' The first almost always results in silence, while the second helps people feel comfortable asking questions.
● If you need to deescalate someone and get them to communicate, ask them questions about numbers or personal information
● When you have something important to say to your kids, say it very quietly so that they listen. They're immune to your yelling, but whispering gets their attention.
● To avoid workplace drama and be liked, compliment people behind their back
● Say hello to everybody you know, and say it with as so little effort for a person to find you friendly!
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Important life facts to know as early as possible in life:
Know that your only competition is who you were yesterday.
Earn, save and invest before you spend.
Avoid negative people, life is too short.
If you don't go after what you want, you will never get it.
Everyone you love is going to die.
We give our lives meaning. If you feel like life is meaningless, that's your fault.
The perfect partner doesn't exist.
Concentrate on finding someone who has a lot of qualities you like and the same values and build a fantastic relationship.
Life is a game. Find the games you want to play, learn the rules, and find a way to be successful at the games you selected.
Everything ends. Youth, love, life, all ends, and that's what makes them valuable.
Be romantic about little things.
Be a realist about the big things. Life isn't a movie, you need to have a plan, have an artist's ambition, but an engineer's mindset.
Figure out a way or don't complain.
See failure as a beginning, not an end.
Our habits decide our future.
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1. Not everyone will like you for being a good person.
2. People will hate you just because other people like you.
3. If you don't learn to say no, you will keep doing the things that people say.
4. Life will only give you what you deserve.
5. If you are talented then also you have to work hard.
6. No matter who you are there will always be someone who will hate you.
7. You will repeat your own mistakes many times.
8. There will be someone who will love you no matter what.
9. Relatives can be your enemies sometimes.
10. Age doesn't define maturity.
11. The situation will force you to leave everything but that time defines you.
12. Self love matters a lot. If you love yourself then you don't need anyone else for anything. You can make yourself happy.
Thank you for reading 😊
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I'm guilty of this but its not too late for you
1. Don't tell people your plans.
They will sabotage you.
2. Don't tell people your weaknesses.
They will use them against you.
3. Don't tell people your failures.
They will always see you as a failure and never give you the opportunity.
4. Don't tell people your next big move. Move in silence, Take action , and shock them with your results.
5. Don't tell people your secrets.
Only a fool reveals secrets.
6. Don't tell people your income or the source of your income. O:-)
Always make them wonder.
7. Don't be too quick in telling your new partner that you love them.
It may overwhelm them, scare them off or they may not believe you.
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1. "He who does not understand your silence
will probably not understand your words."
2. "Open your mouth only if what you are going to say is more beautiful than silence.
3. "Have the maturity to know that sometimes silence is more powerful than having the final Word"
4. "Silence is the best reply to a fool."
5. "When you build in silence, they don't know what to attack."
6. "Silence is always better than nonsense.
7. "Silence is the best answer to someone who doesn't value your words.
8. "Successful people always have only two things on their lips: silence and smile.""
9. "Confuse them with your silence, amaze them with your actions.""
10. "Silence is always better than unnecessary drama. "
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1. Don’t become dependent on any person.
2. No one is going to stay with you forever.
3. Today’s friend could be tomorrow’s enemy.
4. Your secrets are like bullets; if you give them to others, one day they might load those bullets into a gun and use them against you.
5. There are only three things you can always rely on that won’t disappoint you: your pocket, your health, and above all, your God.
6. Keep your needs and desires secret from others.
7. Not everyone who talks to you with a smile loves you.
8. Not everyone who calls you “dear,” “beloved,” or “friend” truly cares about you (TV anchors call us "dear viewers" every day, but they don’t know or love any of us).
9. Take care of yourself... make your mind and heart the source of your happiness, and you will never regret it!
10. Enjoy life by being a little crazy because wise people die early!
11. Pursue your small hobbies and passions, even if they seem trivial to others.
12. Never seek a crutch for yourself.
13. Just because you are kind and empathetic to others, don’t expect the world to treat you the same way.
14. One day, you will realize that you worried more than you needed to... and that God had arranged everything perfectly for you, giving you things you never even hoped or wished for.
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1. Look at the shoulder nearest to you when someone is crossing your path. Most of the time, they will move aside.
2. Coffee delay 1 to 2 hours after waking up. This enables adenosine to be eliminated by cortisol, potentially resulting in energy that lasts into the afternoon.
3. Mouth breathing damages oral health, interferes with sleep, and can lead to sleep apnea. I was able to solve this by using nighttime mouth taping.
4. To improve your sleep, apply the 321 technique. Three hours before bed, avoid eating. Two hours prior, no beverages. An hour prior, no screens.
5. A person's treatment of service employees reveals a lot about their character.
6. Be the most stupid person in the room. Work out at the gym where you are least fit.
7. To improve muscle contraction when lifting weights, employ your mind-muscle link.
8. The largest dental fraud is mouthwash. destroys the bacteria in your mouth. Stay away.
9. You get your best ideas when you're walking, taking a shower, or working out. Prepare a notepad.
10. One-third of your life is spent sleeping. Discover how to maximize it and make it as fantastic as you can.
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1. Quiet people talk a lot inside of their heart, sometimes they talk alone.
2. Once they get comfortable with you they get crazy and wild.
3. They speak in thoughts and heart.
4. They are shy, they can't maintain eye contact a lot.
5. They have too much anger don't get them pissed off. And they know how to micromanage their anger issues.
6. They are strong and very intelligent.
7. They are very crazy on social media (sometimes)
8. They have very cool personalities and are fun to be with.
9. Their minds are always calculating, they are overthinking too much. Bad things and good things. That's how I have noticed.
10. They are loyal and love the most in relationships. When quite people they are in a relationship they love you wholeheartedly. They love deep. But if they don't love you, they leave you completely due to their love is very strong.
11. They never show their pain, and they are emotional people.
12. Some of them are depressed and alone but they pretend, deep down they feel like to be alone, they are introvert people.
13. They've got the cutest smile and weirdest laughter.
14. Most of them they like facts, and they are honest.
15. Quiet people are likely to be secretive, also they hide many things, but if you want to make them feel uncomfortable nor melancholy they will tell the truth as it is without any fear.
16. Quiet people are introverts they are actually happy when they are alone. As long as they are busy with what they love. It's okay.
17. Quiet people, and introvert people create their own scenes in their mind and believe them.
18. Quiet people, and introverted people they love to read. Reading books, especially novels both fiction and nonfiction books. Sometimes inspirational books (self help books).
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1. As a man, you must never run out of options
No matter if it is in dating or business opportunities.
Build yourself up and make yourself irreplaceable,
That's how as a man you can be part of 1%.
2. Never let other people kill your dreams
Never give control of your life to someone else,
You will need up nowhere.
You need to realize that people don't want you to surpass them,
They want you to stay with them where they are and live an average comfortable life.
3. Stop waiting for the right opportunity
If opportunities don't come,
Go out and hunt for them because not everything in life goes as planned.
And nothing is going to happen,
When you don't take any action towards your goal.
4. Focus on progress not perfection
The path you will be on is full of fear, depression and anxiety.
Have no expectations and just keep going.
Take each step day by day and enjoy the process,
The reason BILLIONS of people lose is because all they think about is being perfect in every situation.
5. Stop complaining about the results
People always complain about the results that they should have,
But they don't realise that they haven't put in the work in the first place.
They need to realise that if they are working 6 hours a day,
Somebody else out there is working 12 hours a day.
6. Use your brain to your advantage
You can learn to store billions of memories in your brain,
So use it rather than filling it up with junk.
Start reading books because you can gain decades of knowledge in some hours,
The more you learn in your journey the more you will realise that you know nothing.
7. Never chase women let them chase you
Remember that she is part of the GAME and not the whole GAME,
Never let her 10$ beauty distract you from your purpose.
Make yourself so valuable that low value women can't afford you,
Women chase men who chase their purpose.
8. Stop relying on motivation
90% Man needs to get into the zone so they can start doing their work,
A high value man doesn't need to watch motivational reels to start his work.
He knows that no one is coming to pay his bills and he has to do everything by himself,
Remember that motivation is temporary and discipline is permanent.
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After sex, men want to sleep and women want to talk.
Men express their strongest feelings through the art of making love.
According to a survey, men can listen to their male friends for ages, but they can only listen to their girlfriend or wife for six minutes.
Most men love women with thicker and longer hair.
According to Psychological facts of the male study, males wearing shirts look more attractive than the ones wearing T-shirts.
Men hate asking for help most of the time and will avoid talking any help until they feel they can't do it by themselves.
Men don't like comparison and hate if any female will compare them to other males.
Men are physically strong but emotionally weak compared to women.
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1. Being too friendly invites a lot of disrespect.
2. Sometimes it's not ego; It's self-respect.
3. In the end, you only have yourself.
4. Things end, people change, and life goes on.
5. It all starts with a dream.
6. Some goodbyes are good for your growth.
7. Listen to your heart, not to people's opinions.
8. A clear rejection is better than a fake promise.
9. Sometimes you win, sometimes you learn.
10. Respect tastes better than attention.
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1. Never let anyone hear you complain. Your feelings are irrelevant to others, do what needs to be done with a smile on your face.
2. Act with irrational self-belief. It doesn't matter if others say you can't , since you know you can. Ignore their opinions, you can do anything.
3. Admit when you are wrong. You don't know everything. Own up to your mistakes as quickly as possible as it's the fastest way for you to learn.
4. Progress is made through iteration. If you claim you're going to do something, hold yourself responsible. Your reputation is your sole asset.
5. Control your emotions. Your emotions cloud your judgment. People will look to you for guidance andikes leadership. Don't react , be decisive.
6. Meaningful influence. Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs, and lead them.
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1. Tendency to complain all the time or being negative is also unattractive.
2. Too much self-doubt or an overzealous desire for validation might reveal neediness.
3. Not considering other people's feelings is a manifestation of insensitivity.
4. Not easily able to connect or always interpret others wrongly builds a disconnection.
5. Talking more than others makes one a less important or less preferred human being for others.
6. Lieing or insincerity dissolves trust quickly.
7. Not caring about other people's personal boundaries and sentiments makes that human being unattractive as well.
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To reiterate: Psychology says, There are 7 factors that can end someone's attraction to you, no matter how pretty you are.
1. Tendency to complain all the time or being negative is also unattractive.
2. Too much self-doubt or an overzealous desire for validation might reveal neediness.
3. Not considering other people's feelings is a manifestation of insensitivity.
4. Not easily able to connect or always interpret others wrongly builds a disconnection.
5. Talking more than others makes one a less important or less preferred human being for others.
6. Lieing or insincerity dissolves trust quickly.
7. Not caring about other people's personal boundaries and sentiments makes that human being unattractive as well.
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12 THINGS YOU LEARN AS YOU GET OLDER
1. Friends, even the close ones, might not stay in your life forever.
2. The most important relationship is the one you have with yourself.
3. People notice the results, not how hard you worked for them.
4. It's normal to have heartache and fail sometimes.
5. Home is the best place to be.
6. Family and money are really important.
7. A good book is a great friend.
8. Moving around helps you feel less stressed.
9. Wasting time feeling sad or sorry won’t help you move forward.
10. What you want today might not matter to you tomorrow.
11. Your choices shape your life more than luck does.
12. Childhood is a special time in life.
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1. Not having taken enough photos with the people you love.
2. Wasting years worrying about what others think of you.
3. Letting fear keep you from chasing your dreams.
4. Not telling anyone how much he or she means to you.
5. Staying in a toxic relationship for too long.
6. Taking your parents' time for granted.
7. Waiting for the "perfect moment" that never comes.
8. Not putting yourself first when you should.
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[courtesy Temu]
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1. If a person starts shaking their leg as long as they sit down, they are intelligent.
2. If a person talks to themselves often, they have a sharp mind and deep thoughts.
3. If someone prefers staying quiet in a group, they are usually the smartest observer.
4. If a person gets bored easily, their brain craves higher intellectual stimulation.
5. If someone laughs at dark humor, they have a high IQ and advanced thinking skills.
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The ‘3-word rule’ that makes ChatGPT give expert-level responses,
the concept is simple: Add a short, three-word directive to your prompt that tells ChatGPT how to respond. These three words can instantly shape the tone, voice and depth of the output. You’re not rewriting your whole question. You’re just giving the AI a lens through which to answer:
1. “Like a lawyer” — for structured, detailed and logical responses
2. “Be a teacher” — for simplified, clear and educational explanations
3. “Act like Hemingway” — for punchy, minimalist writing with impact
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HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF
1. Stop begging others.
2. Stop saying more than necessary.
3. Stop looking for who is not looking for you.
4. Invest in yourself and make yourself happy.
5. Stop entertaining gossip about other people.
6. When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.
7. Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.
8. Always look your best; dress the way you should be addressed.
9. Reduce how often you visit some people, especially if they don't reciprocate
10. Think before you talk; 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.
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You may need to hear this:
1. People aren't against you, they are for themselves.
2. Climb mountains. Not so the world can see you but so you can see the world.
3. You learn more from failure than from success. Don't let it stop you; failure builds character.
4. The most dangerous risk of all is the risk of spending your life not doing what you want.
5. Go where you're celebrated, not where you're tolerated.
6. The person you'll spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so you better try to make yourself as interesting as possible.
7. If you accept your limitations, you go beyond.
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Someone asked a friend who has crossed 70 & is heading towards 80 what sort of changes he is feeling in himself? He sent the following:
1. After loving my parents, my siblings, my spouse, my children and my friends, I have now started loving myself.
2. I have realized that I am not “Atlas”. The world does not rest on my shoulders.
3. I have stopped bargaining with vegetable & fruit vendors. A few pennies more is not going to break me, but it might help the poor fellow save for his daughter’s school fees.
4. I leave my waitress a big tip. The extra money might bring a smile to her face. She is toiling much harder for a living than I am.
5. I stopped telling the elderly that they've already told that story many times. The story makes them walk down memory lane & relive their past.
6. I have learned not to correct people even when I know they are wrong. The onus of making everyone perfect is not on me. Peace is more precious than perfection.
7. I give compliments freely & generously. Compliments are a mood enhancer not only for the recipient, but also for me. And a small tip for the recipient of a compliment, never, NEVER turn it down, just say "Thank You.”
8. I have learned not to bother about a crease or a spot on my shirt. Personality speaks louder than appearances.
9. I walk away from people who don't value me. They might not know my worth, but I do.
10. I remain cool when someone plays dirty to outrun me in the rat race. I am not a rat & neither am I in any race.
11. I am learning not to be embarrassed by my emotions. It’s my emotions that make me human.
12. I have learned that it's better to drop the ego than to break a relationship. My ego will keep me aloof, whereas with relationships, I will never be alone.
13. I have learned to live each day as if it's the last. After all, it might be the last.
14. I am doing what makes me happy. I am responsible for my happiness, and I owe it to myself; Happiness is a choice. You can be happy at any time, just choose to be !
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FROM AGE 18-55, KNOW THIS:
1. Take care of your body. Remember health is another form of wealth.
2. Normalize walking some paths alone because goals are personal.
3. Don't waste your energy to fear. Use your energy to believe, learn, create, and grow.
4. If you want to be happy, always have zero expectations of others.
5. Tell no one about your plans, level up in private.
6. You won't be young forever, do what makes you happy every day.
7. Be mature enough to control your emotions. Learn to react less.
8. Free yourself from the society advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.
9. Don't try to change anyone. Change how you deal with them.
10. Your circle is supposed to be proud, not jealous.
11. Do yourself a favor, get rich; Life gets easier with money not time.
12. Master self discipline and consistency and watch your life change.
13. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.
14. Don't go broke trying to impress broke people.
15. Be smart enough to realize nobody got rich with a salary.
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8 ways to deal with people…
1. Silence reveals true intentions, just observe and listen. People will show who they really are.
2. Never tell everyone everything, you might be educating the enemy.
3. Be smart enough to walk away from negative people.
4. In the end, it's up to you to decide what you want. Don't let fear paralyze you.
5. Use the power of your mind to empower your life but don't fall for charlatans.
6. Stop being a people pleaser. Trying to make everyone happy never works. Know you're where you're meant to be.
7a. Saying "Yes" when you mean "No" hurts you, so:
7b. Saying "No" is the best form of self-care.
8. Put yourself first because people will straight up waste your time and energy and you can't get it back.
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Eight Important Truths:
1. No one wants to be with a man who has no ambition.
2. It gets harder to break bad habits as you get older.
3. Constant complaining only adds stress and pushes friends away.
4. Learning never stops unless you stop challenging yourself.
5. Your parents probably won’t change, no matter how many deep talks you have.
6. Being kind or polite doesn’t mean a woman owes you anything.
7. Don’t take life too seriously, people aren’t drawn to those who are always angry or upset.
8. It’s never too late. Life can change anytime, so don’t believe you’re too old or limited to reach your goals.
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10 Easy Health Tips for a Happier, Healthier You:
1. Stay Hydrated – Make it a habit to drink enough water daily for your health and energy boost.
2. Prioritize Sleep – Aim for 7–9 hours of quality sleep each night to feel your best.
3. Eat Nutrient-Dense Foods – Choose whole foods, lean proteins, healthy fats, and fiber-rich options.
4. Move Your Body Daily – Incorporate regular exercise to enhance your mood, energy, and lifespan.
5. Manage Stress Effectively– Use mindfulness, meditation, or deep breathing techniques to keep balanced.
6.Limit Processed Foods & Sugar – Cut back on junk food to improve your gut health and overall energy.
7. Get Sunlight & Fresh Air – Spend some time outdoors to boost your mood and increase your vitamin D.
8. Maintain Healthy Relationships– Surround yourself with uplifting and supportive individuals.
9. Practice Gratitude & Positivity – Shift your mindset to improve your mental and emotional well-being.
10. Listen to Your Body – Take time to rest, nourish yourself properly, and make self-care a priority.
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15 HEALTH BENEFITS OF BEING ALONE:
1. The less you share, the less likely people will be in your business.
2. You'll slowly stop caring about people's opinion on you.
3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you.
4. If everyone is your friend, you have a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information
5. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy, and more time alone.
6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key, and telling no one about your life.
7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals.
8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level.
9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely.
10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack.
11. People will want to know more about you when you talk less about yourself.
12. People don't care so much about you. They only care about what you can offer.
13. You'll owe no one any explanation about your personal life.
14. Not everyone is your friend, live a private life to never attract bad energy.
15. You'll learn when to be alone and when to be with others.
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Some interesting things psychology can tell you about someone just by watching or looking at them:
1. Your personality type is revealed by your punctuality: If you’re reaching everywhere late then you have “Type B (flexible, relaxed, laid-back attitude)”. If you’re reaching everywhere on time, then you have “Type A (competitive, aggressive, achievement-oriented)”.
2. Your eating habits reveal lot about how you approach life: Slow eaters like to be in control and appreciate life. Fast eaters are ambitious, adventurous, & impatient. Picky eaters are neurotic in different areas of life. Those who separate food in their plate, are detail-oriented & disciplined.
3. How Controlling a person can be revealed by their Inbox: Those who start organizing their emails, the moment they receive it, like to have control & order in their lives. Those who save the emails, even after reading them, are perfectionists, who think they make need it later. Lastly, those who don’t spend their time reading, filing, & deleting emails, are people who can easily get confused or overwhelmed.
4. Your Music interest reveals a lot about your personality:
A person who listens to “complex & reflective” music, is adventurous, has self-perceived intelligence, & political liberalism.
A person who listens to “conventional & upbeat” music, is athleticism, self-perceived physical attractiveness, & political conservatism.
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How to Earn Respect:
1. Do not call anyone more than twice.
2. Do not be more friendly with anyone than necessary.
3. Do not give knowledge without being asked.
4. Talk less, be secretive.
5. Do not let anyone know your next move.
6. Search for different streams to earn money and make money.
7. It's not necessary to make everyone happy
8. Do only what you think is right.
9. If someone has improved your life by adding value, do not forget to thank them
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MORE TIPS:
1. Those who do not look for you when you go quiet are the ones that do not miss you and those who don’t miss you, never cared about you in any case.
2. Life decides who walks into your life, yet it is your choice who stays in it.
3. The truth only hurts once. A lie hurts over and over.
4. Learn to take note of who gives the same as they get from you and those who treat you as an option only when they need something from you.
5. Those who hurt you teach you a lesson.
6. Those who criticize you make you more determined.
7. Those who are jealous of you make you important.
8. People will learn the hard way that those who wish you the worst will have to watch while the best happens to you.
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ADVICE FROM OLD PEOPLE:
1. The most important person in your life is the person who agreed to share their life with you. Treat them as such.
2. You might live a long life, or you might live a short one — who knows. But either way, trust me when I say that you’re going to wish you took better care of yourself in your youth.
3. Stuff is just stuff. Don’t hold onto material objects, hold onto time and experiences instead.
4. Jealousy destroys relationships. Trust your significant other, because who else are you supposed to trust?
5. People always say, “Make sure you get a job doing what you love!” But that isn’t the best advice. The right job is the job you love some days, can tolerate most days, and still pays the bills. Almost nobody has a job they love every day.
6. If you’re getting overwhelmed by life, just return to the immediate present moment and savour all that is beautiful and comforting. Take a deep breath, relax.
7. Years go by in the blink of an eye. Don’t marry young. Live your life. Go places. Do things. If you have the means or not. Pack a bag and go wherever you can afford to go. While you have no dependents, don’t buy stuff. Any stuff. See the world. Look through travel magazines and pick a spot. GO!
8. Don’t take life so seriously. Even if things seem dark and hopeless, try to laugh at how ridiculous life is.
9. A true friend will come running if you call them at 2am. Everyone else is just an acquaintance.
10. Children grow up way too fast. Make the most of the time you have with them.
11. Nobody ever dies wishing they had worked more. Work hard, but don’t prioritize work over family, friends, or even yourself.
12. Eat and exercise like you’re a diabetic heart patient with a stroke — so you never actually become one.
13. Maybe this one isn’t as profound as the others, but I think it’s important… Floss regularly, dental problems are awful.
14. Don’t take anyone else’s advice as gospel. You can ask for advice from someone you respect, then take your situation into consideration and make your own decision. Essentially, take your own advice is my advice…
15. The joints you damage today will get their revenge later. Even if you think they’ve recovered completely. TRUST ME!
16. We have one time on this earth. Don’t wake up and realize that you are 60 years old and haven’t done the things you dreamed about.
17. Appreciate the small things and to be present in the moment. What do I mean? Well, it seems today like younger people are all about immediate gratification. Instead, why not appreciate every small moment? We don’t get to stay on this crazy/wonderful planet forever and the greatest pleasure can be found in the most mundane of activities. Instead of sending a text, pick up the phone and call someone. Call your mother, have a conversation about nothing in particular. Those are the moments to hold onto.
18. Pay your bills and stay the hell out of debt. If I could have paid myself all the money I’ve paid out in interest over the years, I’d be retired already.
19. If you have a dream of being or doing something that seems impossible, try for it anyway. It will only become more impossible as you age and become responsible for other people.
And finally, the last piece of advice:
20. When you meet someone for the first time, stop and realize that you really know nothing about them. You see race, gender, age, clothes. Forget it all. You know nothing. Those biased assumptions that pop into your head because of the way your brain likes categories, are limiting your life, and other people’s lives.
Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 05:24:16 AM
Easy Life Lessons We All Forget:
1. You feel lonely not because no one wants you, but because you care who is around you.
2. Don’t tell your friend what you wouldn’t want your enemy to know.
3. We love ourselves most, but we care more about what others think.
4. There are two ways to do things: the right way, or do it again.
5. It’s not your fault you’re hurt, but it’s your job to heal.
6. Letting go means leaving some past behind, not your future.
7. One day can change everything. Sometimes, even years change nothing.
8. If you never take a risk, you might lose even more.
9. Doing something quickly helps you feel less anxious
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10. Maybe: If you don’t say a word, you control it. If you say it, it controls you.
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19 Impossible To Ignore Hard Life Lessons That Pack Life Long Wisdom:
1. Never underestimate the power of stupid people.
2. You are right about all the things you think you need to do. Don’t wait—get started.
3. Knowledge is knowing that a tomato is a fruit. Wisdom is not putting it in a fruit salad.
4. Circumstances make man, not man’s circumstances.
5. Sometimes, it’s a blessing to not get what you want.
6. It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for something you are not.
7. People will say almost anything when they’re happy. Be wise and careful of this.
8. Dead people receive more flowers than the living ones because regret is stronger than gratitude.
9. A goal is a dream with a deadline.
10. Be proud you survived the days you thought you couldn’t.
11. Worry is the ultimate bully. It takes everything and gives nothing. Let go or be dragged.
12. Great results can be achieved with small forces.
13. When thinking about life, remember: No amount of guilt can change the past, and no amount of anxiety can change the future.
14. No one is going to figure out your life. It’s your responsibility.
15. Rejection is important for self-development.
16. Your mind gives up a lot faster than your body.
17. Leave nothing for tomorrow which can be done today.
18. Not everyone will like you—that’s life. You’ll ruin your life trying to make everyone happy.
19. Love your neighbor as yourself.
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EVEN MORE ADVICE:
1. There’s no perfect time. Waiting too long only makes you stressed. Just start now.
2. You can’t change the past. Worrying about it is a waste of time.
3. Words can hurt a lot. Mean words stay in people’s hearts. Say things that lift others up.
4. Failing makes us sad. Success can make us proud. Stay kind in both good and bad times.
5. Wanting a perfect life can make you unhappy. Let go of “shoulds” and enjoy what you have.
6. Phones and screens stop real connection. Talk to people in person and listen to their stories.
7. We judge ourselves by what we think, but others by what they do. Be someone people like to be around.
8. You may give a lot and get nothing back. Some people don’t give like you do—and that’s okay.
9. No one owes you anything. Take back control of your life and stop blaming others.
10. We all die one day. Live with purpose and fix broken relationships while you still can.
11. Every good thing comes with a cost. Ask yourself: what are you willing to give to get what you want?
12. Even if someone else caused the problem, it’s your job to fix it. Focus on what you can do next.
13. Being too comfortable is dangerous. Take risks, even when the road is hard but take care gambling !
14. Real justice is rare. Many people get hurt chasing what they think is “fair.”
15. You start to dislike yourself when you break your promises. Keep your word to feel proud of who you are.
16. Sometimes you must remove toxic friends. It’s okay to protect your peace.
17. Good things take time. Don’t expect quick results—keep working at it.
18. Not everyone will support you. Some will doubt or hate. Ignore them and follow your heart.
Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 05:59:23 AM
Someone-who-is-wise's perspective
1. Take care of your health because it's the most valuable thing.
2. It's okay to walk alone towards your goals; it's your journey.
3. Don't expect too much from others; focus on what makes you happy.
4. Fear uses up energy; use it to believe in yourself and learn and grow.
7. Being mature means controlling your reactions and not overreacting.
10. Have supportive friends who cheer you on, not those who get jealous.
11. Having money makes life easier, so work towards financial stability.
12. Being consistent and disciplined can lead to big changes in your life.
13. Choose your friends wisely; they can be more important than family.
14. Don't spend too much trying to impress people who don't matter.
15. Making money often comes from starting your own projects, not just from jobs.
16. Protect your peace of mind by staying away from negativity.
Post Merged: June 18, 2025, 06:02:21 AM
11 smart habits that will earn you respect !:
1. Be authentic, don't just agree.
2. Speak with confidence and clarity, slow down.
3. Show genuine interest, be present.
4. Stay calm, embrace your natural confidence.
5. Lighten up, enjoy the moment.
6. Take up space, project confidence.
7. Discuss challenging topics, speak your truth.
8. Listen without interrupting.
9. Be present, avoid overthinking.
10. Don't react to criticism, stay composed.
11. Focus on the process, not just the outcome.
If you got here, congrats! You're among the top 1% who complete what they begin
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This will be my last set of tips for a while - thanks, Quora for most of the source material (with the odd edit by myself).
The best way to live a peaceful life:
1. Don’t cry for someone who hurts you. Just smile and say, "Thank you for letting me find someone better!"
2. Don’t be mad at jealous people; they envy you because they think you’re greater than them.
3. Don’t spend time trying to get back at others. Those who hurt you will face their own consequences in time.
4. Keep your plans a secret. Show everyone the results instead.
5. Your feelings aren’t for sale, so don’t show them off. Just show your attitude instead.
6. Don’t give up. Your time to shine will come; it just takes a little while.
7. If you help someone expecting something back, you’re not being kind; you’re making a deal.
8. Trust is really important, but if it’s broken, just saying "sorry" isn’t enough.
9. Remember, where you are now isn’t where you’ll always be. Better things are coming.
10. Don’t leave a good relationship for small faults. Everyone makes mistakes; love is more important than being perfect.
11. Don’t go to a funeral just to show you cared for someone. Show your care while they are still alive.
12. Don’t promise things when you’re happy, and don’t make decisions when you’re sad.
13. Don’t expect loyalty from people who can’t be honest with you.
14. Keep going! The start is usually the hardest part.
15. You won’t understand how precious a moment is until it’s gone. Treasure the good times before they become memories.
16. Finally, appreciation is a simple way to get what you don’t have. After reading something nice, remember to say, "Thank you for the message!" :)
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I couldn't resist adding some more:
1. Never play with someone's feelings just for your happiness. You may win the game, but the risk is that you will surely lose the person for a lifetime.
2. Never stop to make yourself better. No matter what you know, the minute you stop building yourself, you begin to deteriorate.
3. Never think that you are not good enough. In life, people will take you for what or how you present yourself.
4. Never lose hope in life. To hope, is to breathe life, to free your mind from fear and pessimism and fill it with optimism and positive thinking. So, no matter how difficult your life gets, never deprive yourself of hope.
5. Never lose your self-respect. Self-respect is a form of self-care.
6. Never beg for opportunities. Snatch them. When you beg for opportunities (including jobs), you will be seen as inexperienced and of low value. It is much better to have confident in the value you have to offer than to beg.
7. Never take anyone or anything in life for granted. Taking things for granted is considered irresponsible, even damaging. Taking your spouse for granted is a surefire way to make them feel unloved. Taking your income for granted can put you at financial risk if you lose your job. Taking your health for granted can lead you to take poor care of yourself.
8. Even if the world takes advantage of you, never let the good in you d!e.
Post Merged: July 03, 2025, 07:40:29 AM
What Real Confidence Means:
1. Confidence isn't thinking you'll always win. It's being okay if you don't.
2. People don't notice your flaws unless you point them out. Don't talk about your fears so much.
3. Loud people aren't always confident. True confidence is calm and quiet.
4. Don't explain too much. Say what you need and be silent.
5. You don't have to feel confident to act confident. Acting comes first, feeling comes later.
6. Chasing approval scares respect away. Seeking validation is loud; self-respect is quiet.
7. Looking unsure is worse than being wrong. People trust people who believe in themselves.
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14 UNSPOKEN RULES:
1. Don't ask someone their salary, age, or weight.
2. Let people exit before you
3. Return what you borrow in enter. the same condition.
4. Don't interrupt when someone is speaking.
5. Don't use speakerphone in public.
6. Respect personal space-physical and emotional.
7. If someone is wearing headphones, they don't want to talk.
8. Don't show up empty-handed to someone's home.
9. Don't ask couples when they're having kids.
10. Say "thank you" even for small gestures.
11. Keep your phone away during meals.
12. Don't make fun of someone's appearance.
13. Don't stare-it's rude.
14. Respect the "Do Not Disturb" sign-literally and figuratively.
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🏋️♀️Health Tips You cannot afford to ignore:
1. Aim for 7–8 hours of sleep — it's crucial for your body's restoration.
2. Stay hydrated — lack of water can weaken both your body and mind.
3. Get some movement each day — even a walk counts.
4. Reduce sugar intake — it's a catalyst for illness and fatigue.
5. Choose whole, nutritious foods — both your gut and mind will appreciate it.
6. Don’t skip strength training — preserving muscle slows down aging.
7. Handle stress effectively — ongoing stress can harm your health without you noticing.
8. Soak up some sunlight daily — it provides free vitamin D and lifts your spirits.
9. Pay attention to your body — aches and tiredness can be early indicators of issues.
10. Schedule routine checkups — it's wise even when you feel well.
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Ten truths:
1. No one is coming to save you, you’re on your own.
2. Being kind doesn’t always get you rewards, but it’s still worth it.
3. You don’t “own” anyone; relationships are about respect and freedom.
4. Playing it safe won’t take you far, sometimes you have to take risks.
5. Your biggest challenge? Yourself.
6. There’s a better version of you waiting to show up.
7. Success doesn’t happen alone, you need support and team spirit.
8. What happens to you? You’re responsible for it.
9. Nobody feels sorry for those who give up.
10. Money controls a lot in life, learn to understand that power.
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9 Important Things Every Man Should Do to Earn a Woman’s Respect:
Women respect a man who can make decisions confidently and take responsibility for them. It’s not about always being right, but owning your choices.
Trust is built by doing what you say, especially in little things. Keeping promises matters more than grand gestures.
Being respected means feeling your emotions but staying steady. Calm and composed men are seen as strong and trustworthy.
Let people know what’s okay and what’s not. This shows you respect yourself, and others will respect you for it too.
Focus on one skill you love and get better at it every day. Mastery shows dedication and confidence.
It’s not about showing off money but being stable and planning for the future. Having your finances in order lifts a lot of stress.
How you behave in social settings matters. Treat everyone well and be aware of how groups work. It shows you’re confident and smart.
You don’t need to be a bodybuilder, but staying healthy shows discipline and pride. Exercise, sleep well, and eat right, it all counts.
Curiosity makes you interesting and adaptable. Always look for new things to learn and experiences to enjoy.