Good thread yall, lots of stuff to think about. The gender roles society puts on us are for sure bad for men too. I think in this and many other situations these ingrained society expectations shape our thoughts and actions more than we can identify.
That being said, ive been told by many men that girls are inherently "fiendier" than men. I think its kinda funny they say this, cause it seems like these guys who have told me this are men whose girlfriends use heavily.
To me it seems like a rational that convinces themselves that its just the way of the world, girls=femiendier si they don't have to come to terms with the fact that their gf may be going more hard than is sustainable, or something.
You guys have heard this or no? Obviously i don't think its a generalisation that makes sense to say for all men or women.