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Re: Hello Ladies
« Reply #14 on: August 16, 2015, 05:05:57 PM »
I want to add my thanks to Candy for this section too. Its great to be able to ask about 'girl stuff'!

Hey Junkette - regarding being "dry", What Candy said :
"Maybe get your hormone levels checked if possible." 

If you can, be sure to get *all* the levels especially fsh, t3 t4 etc b/c they all matter & it can be another imbalance causing your problems vs peri menopause. For me though, it was indeed that--had medical menopause (the out of the blue sudden kind). I was so dry it hurt to wipe after urinating.  I was prescribed a compounding cream of progesterone and testosterone (use it just like monistat cream a couple times a week). I'm sorry you're dealing with that, its no joke to be that kind of painfully dry!

If money is an issue/you can't get labwork done right now, do you have a compounding pharmacy nearby?  The pharmacists at mine are incredibly helpful, and often have herbal treatments that really do work.

There's also a book called menopause for Dummies which gave me a ton of information not mentioned by my (male) doctor that you might find helpful.  Good luck & I hope you feel more comfortable soon!
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Re: Hello Ladies
« Reply #15 on: August 23, 2015, 03:14:43 AM »
I really am glad you guys are enjoying this part of the site as I said before.

I wanted to add that in the last year I too have noticed I am "dry", even when I am very aroused.
My man is very patient and we use a lot of different fun things to help, but it is just horrible to feel that way all of a sudden.
It can take you from excited to nothing in no time flat.

I do have thyroid problems and I am on medication, but it has not made a difference. Maybe something per-menopausal?

I also have interstitial cystitis, a problem with that is associated with a painful bladder, the need to urinate all the time, and pelvic pain.
It is a real bitch to have. It has really changed my life. Urinating up to 20 + times a day. Hard to leave the house. I hate using public bathrooms. Reminds me of my days of using and I am kinda freaky when it comes to germs. I am sure many of you have seen what a women's bathroom can look like. How can women be so damn gross? I guess that is another topic. 
I have to be very careful after sex too, because I tend to get a bladder infection after sex, even if I pee right after.

Getting old is not fun, but I am going to make the best of it!
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Re: Hello Ladies
« Reply #16 on: August 23, 2015, 03:34:41 AM »
Hey, Junkette! So sorry to hear you are stuggling with endometriosis. I had a complete hysterectomy (uterus, ovaries and cervix) at 27 (I'm 42 now) due to severe endometriosis.  I had implants on my bladder, bowels (had 14 inches removed due to the endo stranggling it....yuck and ouch!) and a huge endometrioma on my right kidney.  That shit can travel!

Anyway, the pain from it is horrible and it made sex VERY painful.  Even after the hysterectomy, I had pain due to dryness.  I was not able to be on hormone replacement because estrogen feeds the disease...so dryness it is!!!!  I can be really aroused and into it, but my vagina will still be as dry as the Sahara.  I know it is really frustrating and my husband felt that it was him putting in a sub-par performance that was responsible.  Not the case of course, but it is a frustrating symptom to deal with.

I don't know if you are on any treatments, but before my surgery and also after, I did quite a few cycles of Lupron...which also causes dryness.

Even after all these years I still cringe a little right before intercourse in anticipation of pain.  It just goes to show you how painful endo is if almost 20 years later I still have such a visceral reaction!

Sorry this got so long.  I am sorry you are suffering with the endo.  When you go for your next checkup, ask if the doctor can recommend anything for you.  Totally frustrating!!!!
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Re: Hello Ladies
« Reply #17 on: August 24, 2015, 08:58:48 PM »
Hi Candy,

Is this area members only?
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Re: Hello Ladies
« Reply #18 on: August 24, 2015, 11:46:04 PM »
Hi Candy,

Is this area members only?

Hey Opiette. I checked and yes, this sub forum is "Members Only". Regards, s&w
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Re: Hello Ladies
« Reply #19 on: August 25, 2015, 02:10:21 AM »
Hi Candy,

Is this area members only?

Hey Opiette. I checked and yes, this sub forum is "Members Only". Regards, s&w

Thanks sis!  :) I wouldn't want to traumatize randoms off the street with my stories lol
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Re: Hello Ladies
« Reply #20 on: August 25, 2015, 02:40:05 AM »
Hahahaha^^^  Now you got me curious. If a lotta guys get all wigged out about making a run to buy tampons, I wonder what the "O. M. G., I'm blind now!!" rating will be for some of our more... "informative" tales?  ;)

 hehehe I'm gonna get smacked for that one (prolly have it coming lol).
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Re: Hello Ladies
« Reply #21 on: August 25, 2015, 06:28:25 AM »
Hahahaha^^^  Now you got me curious. If a lotta guys get all wigged out about making a run to buy tampons, I wonder what the "O. M. G., I'm blind now!!" rating will be for some of our more... "informative" tales?  ;)

 hehehe I'm gonna get smacked for that one (prolly have it coming lol).

LOL! Now I'm thinking twice about sharing my pervvy stories here ;)
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Re: Hello Ladies
« Reply #22 on: August 25, 2015, 08:50:52 AM »
Hahahaha^^^  Now you got me curious. If a lotta guys get all wigged out about making a run to buy tampons,

When my GFs ask me to buy tampons for them, I do without question. 

Although, I purchase the largest size tampons available.

I guess the "joke" is eventually on me......: (I can't feel anything!!)

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Re: Hello Ladies
« Reply #23 on: September 01, 2015, 04:13:24 PM »
My bf buys me tampons when I need him to. 
He takes a picture of the box with his phone so he knows exactly what I need.
He used to call me from the drug store after pacing up and down the aisle trying to remember what I told him to get.
Poor guy. Just trying to be helpful by making sure I don't leak!

There is nothing worse that having your period and not having the adequate protection you are going to need.

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Re: Hello Ladies
« Reply #24 on: September 02, 2015, 07:52:39 AM »
Hahahaha^^^  Now you got me curious. If a lotta guys get all wigged out about making a run to buy tampons,

When my GFs ask me to buy tampons for them, I do without question. 

Although, I purchase the largest size tampons available.

I guess the "joke" is eventually on me......: (I can't feel anything!!)
Lmao! Applaud.
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Re: Hello Ladies
« Reply #25 on: September 02, 2015, 08:09:49 AM »
Ok girls... I was reading all the stuff we've got & love it so far :D.

Topic: things we wish guys know...whether its drugs, doctor, sex, stuff with relationships/kids, arguing about stopping for directions etc etc. I was thinking about serious AND funny.

I don't want to waste y'all's time, so does anyone think this is worth a thread?
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Re: Hello Ladies
« Reply #26 on: September 02, 2015, 08:18:23 AM »
You wish guys would understand that when you're in the bathroom you have a lot of shit to do in there! You're fucking busy!
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Re: Hello Ladies
« Reply #27 on: September 02, 2015, 08:28:48 AM »
Ok girls... I was reading all the stuff we've got & love it so far :D.

Topic: things we wish guys know...whether its drugs, doctor, sex, stuff with relationships/kids, arguing about stopping for directions etc etc. I was thinking about serious AND funny.

I don't want to waste y'all's time, so does anyone think this is worth a thread?
Yes.
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Re: Hello Ladies
« Reply #28 on: September 02, 2015, 08:34:54 AM »
You wish guys would understand that when you're in the bathroom you have a lot of shit to do in there! You're fucking busy!

Ding ding ding points for Jega :D

ps:that's just the tip of the iceberg--a man who understand the value of putting the seat back down...
priceless!!!
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pps: so gang, if y'all like the idea, let me know & I'll start a thread--I'm thinking this could be fun ...
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Re: Hello Ladies
« Reply #29 from previous page: September 02, 2015, 11:32:06 PM »
You wish guys would understand that when you're in the bathroom you have a lot of shit to do in there! You're fucking busy!

Ding ding ding points for Jega :D

ps:that's just the tip of the iceberg--a man who understand the value of putting the seat back down...
priceless!!!
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pps: so gang, if y'all like the idea, let me know & I'll start a thread--I'm thinking this could be fun ...

Agreed! Count me in  ;D
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