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Offline Brown eyed Girl

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Re: A Hug
« Reply #14 from previous page: March 10, 2016, 01:10:40 PM »
So weird this is what I am reading today because I was thinking the same thing this morning on the way to work.  We do need to "touch" each other!! thanks
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Re: A Hug
« Reply #15 on: March 10, 2016, 01:22:27 PM »
I swear I wish I could reach through the monitor and hug some of you.  And I'm not even a "hugging" person at all, don't really like to be hugged or even touched beyond the arm, outside of a close relationship.  But physical contact means so much and it's something we can't give each other over the internet, unfortunately.
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Re: A Hug
« Reply #16 on: March 10, 2016, 03:19:08 PM »
and you still never accept my offer to video chat whenever I ask you

though I can see not wanting to videochat when you arent feeling well.

either way you still have my email. youve been on my mind bud
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Re: A Hug
« Reply #17 on: March 10, 2016, 03:42:32 PM »
@neighbor, you mean Jega not me, right..?  Or else I've been missing a lot.
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Re: A Hug
« Reply #18 on: March 10, 2016, 04:51:18 PM »
I don't know your entire situation Jega, only what I've read, but do you think getting a puppy would help/be a good idea?

I know pets aren't for everyone but it's just an idea... trying to think outside of the box a bit. You definitely would never be short of drool (just think of it as love water) and cuddles!
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Re: A Hug
« Reply #19 on: March 10, 2016, 07:48:21 PM »
I would second the puppy/dog suggestion.  I was absolutely shattered after my divorce, and can't state how much help it was for my state of being once I adopted a rescue dog.  Having an animal that is reliant on you, and that is always happy to see you and feel your warmth and touch does wonderful things to your perception of the world.
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Re: A Hug
« Reply #20 on: March 10, 2016, 08:14:55 PM »
@Roman Totale why do you always act like we havent been video chatting and emailing for months?


and jega email me if for no other reason than to remind yourself of my email address
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Re: A Hug
« Reply #21 on: March 10, 2016, 08:23:34 PM »
(((((((( @Jega ))))))))

I sometimes hug my gay friends because they're often really nice to me - it's always received well.

I also like to hug old good friends that I haven't seen in years.

Jega, that's the best I can do since I am so far away and we will never meet.
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Re: A Hug
« Reply #22 on: March 10, 2016, 11:40:53 PM »
This thread - wow.  I seriously need a hug, so yeah. 

@ the AA/NA discussion earlier:  I chose AA over NA at 18 because I could shake hands all day but recoiled at the idea of being expected to hug whoever happens to walk up to me with their arms out.  This sounds fucked up on my part now - who's to say who might really need a hug that day?  I was kind of a dick as a kid.  Textbook masked insecurity. 

Dogs - Norvin, here at my feet, saved my life on an ongoing basis for years.  He's old now and has difficulties, I worry.

  This last year I've slowly dropped most of my meaningful human interactions/support & I'm pretty isolated aside from my immediate family.  I trade small talk a bit at work but mostly work alone.
 
OH!  I get MAJOR HUGS from my two nieces several times each weekend & start craving them around Thursday.  that's a good thing.

Anyhow, I wish everyone here all available peace, comfort and companionship this evening & forward.
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Re: A Hug
« Reply #23 on: June 08, 2016, 05:50:12 AM »
*bump*
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