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Re: Pick Up Artists
« Reply #44 from previous page: May 03, 2016, 05:29:17 PM »
People would be good to head @candy advice. Whores/idiots respond to pick up lines, real woman want someone who's not a boy.
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Re: Pick Up Artists
« Reply #45 on: May 03, 2016, 05:56:27 PM »
You show your daddy some respect!

And Leo, do you have a girl in mind or is this just theoretical?
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Re: Pick Up Artists
« Reply #46 on: May 03, 2016, 06:10:29 PM »
Cheap fun date:
1. From a craft store buy self adhesive wiggley eyes
2.you and the lady go around town placing wiggley eyes over the eyes of various people and animal advertisements
3. Die at the simple hilarity of the results.
4. Sounds silly, but I promise she'll fucking love it
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Re: Pick Up Artists
« Reply #47 on: May 03, 2016, 06:27:50 PM »
That's actually a really good idea
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Re: Pick Up Artists
« Reply #48 on: May 03, 2016, 10:15:26 PM »
Cheap fun date:
1. From a craft store buy self adhesive wiggley eyes
2.you and the lady go around town placing wiggley eyes over the eyes of various people and animal advertisements
3. Die at the simple hilarity of the results.
4. Sounds silly, but I promise she'll fucking love it

I am going to use this. Thanks!

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Re: Pick Up Artists
« Reply #49 on: May 04, 2016, 12:51:07 AM »
All this talk about PUA (Pikc Up Arists) and having read the boosk "The Game" about them I thought I would share what I know. It not brag, just things I have observed.

Moast sef-proclaimed "Master PUA's" are garden-variety psociopathic assholes focused on getting dates like Wall Street types chase money.  Here's the rub when it comes to women liking assholes. For some of them, its "daddy issues," her father was a jerk or bully or cheated on her mom (whatever) and people tend to gravitate to things that are familiar to them even if they conciously don't like those aspects of a man's personality.

Also, men who are confident, smart and good at whatever they do often come off as cocky (for good reason), you don't win gold medals if you have self doubt and if you are really fucking smart you've probaby figured that out. Although some women may simply be "gold diggers" what most people call "success" is more than just money it is being the type   of person who sets and acheives goals for himself or is for some other resaon is "charismatic."

That's what PUAs aspire to being. They dress in bizarre clothes and accessories and calll it "Peacocking" like the male birds that have more colorful plumage than females. They "neg" girls to throw them a curvebll so that they then find themselves trying to win back the guys approval (like they are used to getting). They (PUAs) go after phone numbers and one night stands because they arent looking for the a great girl, they are "counting coup" just keeping score of "10's" to compete with each other. That makes sense becasue no woman in her right mind would want to be a PUA's girlfriend, unless she just wants to get (secondhand)  attention because her man gets attention.

My own belief is that it isn't men who do the picking up anyway. It is the women who decide who gets the green light and if the guy gets the message his friends might think he picks up girls like loose change but really he's the bimbo.

The guys who pay for PUA advice (I think) just never learned that women aren't aliens, they can spot bullshit and even though they might think they guy is cute enough to ignore it and fuck him anyway, she wont fall for him.

When I was 19 (and dinosaurs roamed the Earth) I bught a book advertised in the back of Playboy magazine "How to Pick up Girls" It was very, very simple and tought me a lot. Basically it said; be interested in what she's interested in but don't fake interest. Be yourself and treat her with at least as much repect as anyone who imppresses you for whatever reason  but don't kiss ass. BE a friend. Freinds do things for each other with absolutley no expectation of reciprocation because you CARE about your friends, even if they don't blow you for helping them move.

I've had more "luck" with women when I wasn't trying to sleep with them but just engaging them in intersting conversation, not trying to impress them with what I know, or "mansplaining" but listening and caring about how what they are telling me about made them feel.

It helps ( a lot) if you treat everybody with courtesy and respsect. That means waiters, bartenders, cabbies, janitors and all the people the snobs look down on. People (women) notice that when you do and they understand that rather than making you seem like a suck-up it makes you look like a confident man secure in his place in the world and one who looks out for others and people of quality recognize it and it is attractive because it shows you look out for others.
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Re: Pick Up Artists
« Reply #50 on: May 04, 2016, 12:02:54 PM »
Not at all.
If there is one thing I have learned as I have gotten older is to appreciate being with someone you can be yourself with. My bf has never experienced drug abuse or addiction, but yet when he learned of my problems with addiction and my past, it only made him want to learn more about what I was dealing with and how to help and support me. He is truly a gem, but I know that there are many other men and women out there who treat others with the same love and respect.
Nothing wrong with a nice dinner and a movie, but there is also nothing wrong with experiencing something new, with someone new.
If I had not met my bf, I would have never learned how to bait a crab pot and set them, never shot my first buck, never experienced sitting in a tree stand, and never learned how to make a fire without matches. Maybe it sounds silly to some, but for me it was life changing in so many ways.

Unfortunately, I believe that many women are so afraid of being alone or getting the "right" guy, they often end up with the wrong guys.

I grew up with an abusive father and and my first real relationship with was an abusive man, and that only led to a string of abusive relationships for me for years. Lack of self-confidence and self-worth play a big part in why many women will often continue to choose men who are abusive or just don't show any respect, but don't give up on finding that right woman for you and most importantly, just be yourself.
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Re: Pick Up Artists
« Reply #51 on: May 04, 2016, 02:14:18 PM »
You show your daddy some respect!

And Leo, do you have a girl in mind or is this just theoretical?
Its a girl I work with. She checks me in at the guard shack. But just yesterday she told mr " its pathetic you cant buy me a 2 dollar breakfast". So that turned me way the fuck off, cause why would I buy you anything when I dont even know you? So I actually kind of snapped on her.. She did apologize but I dono. Maybe Im over reacting. As of right now Im thinking Ima take a different girl to the zoo though.

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Re: Pick Up Artists
« Reply #52 on: May 04, 2016, 02:17:07 PM »
@candy Thats what I will try to do. Be myself. Its just sad to see a girl you really like " get away" cause ur not a fucking asshole. Im very happy for you though. Sounds like you got a great guy at your side.
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Re: Pick Up Artists
« Reply #53 on: May 04, 2016, 03:39:48 PM »
Its a girl I work with. She checks me in at the guard shack. But just yesterday she told mr " its pathetic you cant buy me a 2 dollar breakfast". So that turned me way the fuck off, cause why would I buy you anything when I dont even know you? So I actually kind of snapped on her.. She did apologize but I dono. Maybe Im over reacting. As of right now Im thinking Ima take a different girl to the zoo though.

Sounds like she was trying to ask you out.  Or she's a bit grumpy.  Who knows?

Pick up artists know.
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Re: Pick Up Artists
« Reply #54 on: May 04, 2016, 05:29:05 PM »
Sounds like she was trying to ask you out.  Or she's a bit grumpy.  Who knows?

Pick up artists know.

I agree with Z. You should ask her out.
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Re: Pick Up Artists
« Reply #55 on: May 04, 2016, 07:23:53 PM »
Ok. I guess Im missing something here. You guys are cool with a chick asking you to buy shit for her when you dont even really know her? I mean whats next. Girls do this type of shit to test you. If Im a willing participant, who knows what she asks for next.
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Re: Pick Up Artists
« Reply #56 on: May 04, 2016, 08:03:54 PM »
It's a two dollar breakfast brohomodon

Now I ain't sayin she's a gold digger....
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Re: Pick Up Artists
« Reply #57 on: May 04, 2016, 08:05:24 PM »
But she ain't messin with no broke African American.

She just wanted to have breakfast and talk to you away from work.
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Re: Pick Up Artists
« Reply #58 on: May 04, 2016, 08:16:26 PM »
You guys are funny. But why did she have to use the word pathetic? To me, thats a strong ass word. I guess I could just " play game" till I fuck her and then leave her. But Im not that type honestly. I mean, what if shes just used to mal treament... Should I be the one to introduce  her to the " light side"? Is it my responsibility to do so? Would I just turn out to be a punk?
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Re: Pick Up Artists
« Reply #59 on: May 04, 2016, 08:16:58 PM »
I think it's about tone of voice... was she playful or was she bitchy about it?
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