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Re: Things we wish guys knew...
« Reply #74 from previous page: September 08, 2015, 09:53:57 AM »
I use my talk less and listen/watch more.

drugs for sex is such a cold, cold transaction.

nope, not a cool transaction - I like real money for those types of transactions, it's wiser and seems less exploitative.
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Re: Things we wish guys knew...
« Reply #75 on: September 08, 2015, 10:29:30 AM »
And now father's can get the feeling of breastfeeding. A very tiny tube attached to a nipple is then attached to a bottle. The tube is taped to the area above the father's nipple, so that the tube is lying over the nipple. The baby is helped to latch on and with the taste of formula the baby will start to suckle and then dad gets to know what breast feeding is like.
It was how I had to start off my youngest feeding from the breast because he was in the NICU and my milk wasn't coming in well due to stress. /quote

Candy--I didn't know they had those for guys!!  I had to use them for a couple of weeks when my daughter was around 6 weeks due to stress too (finally had to get a protective Order b/c her father continued to be violent). I wonder how many men have tried it?  For the guys reading this that feel bottle is the same, all I can say is you might have a change of heart :)

Chipper--yes x1000   Though I never traded anything for sex, I can say that the emotional factors already involved (my experience only) are plenty to deal with. Big respect to you for not advocating using $$/drugs to get off.

--I wish men knew how valuable a woman feeling mentally/emotionally "safe" can be. I would've swum an ocean for my ex until that security disappeared.

--I wish men knew what a boost hearing "Baby, you look great today" can give :)
(Though I know I didn't always remember this myself)

--Same goes for flowers or a special dinner for no special reason :D  (I always did this!)
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Re: Things we wish guys knew...
« Reply #76 on: September 08, 2015, 10:02:59 PM »
Why did the blonde stop breastfeeding?

She said boiling her nipples hurt too much.


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Re: Things we wish guys knew...
« Reply #77 on: September 09, 2015, 12:01:45 AM »
Why did the blonde stop breastfeeding?

She said boiling her nipples hurt too much.


;)

Bwahaha!!! Just snorted my soda!!  Too funny.

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Re: Things we wish guys knew...
« Reply #78 on: September 09, 2015, 03:43:15 AM »
chipper someone just hasn't offered you enough drugs yet

aren't we all junkies?

Also, there is NOTHING ignoble about having sex work as a profession; the laws in the USA make it so, but there is nothing wrong with the occupation itself, and is respectable under the right circumstance (the right circumstance being an absence of coercion).  Many women actually choose this line of work, and many of our "family friends" in Greece are escorts/prostitutes.

It ain't trickin if you got it das what I say.

Also, Candy, how do I feel, as a male, seeing a woman breast feed in public?
-Suddenly I get thirsty!   ::)
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Re: Things we wish guys knew...
« Reply #79 on: September 09, 2015, 01:08:28 PM »
Having sex on your
Period
Is just fucking nasty
I have never
Would never
Let hero fuck me
When I'm bleeding


I have a question
I asked it
On FAUX HAWK'S site
But I'm curious
It seems in movies
Women who are on top
(During sex)
Are portrayed as whores
But when it comes to those
Who are on bottom
Are portrayed as
Better than
As in not whores
I can't really think of the word I'm looking for

I believe that it is
AND unrealistic portrayal of women
Women who are on top
Are usually, in my mind,
Those who are in touch with their bodies
A woman who is in touch
With her body
And knows how to cum
Is far from a whore

Do y'all know that something
Like 70% of women
Don't know how to have an orgasm?

Now that's gotta be one miserable woman
Fer fucks sake
Learn how to have an orgasm
It's almost a guarantee
THAT you would enjoy life better

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Re: Things we wish guys knew...
« Reply #80 on: September 10, 2015, 02:14:44 PM »
Having sex on your
Period
Is just fucking nasty
I have never
Would never
Let hero fuck me
When I'm bleeding


I have a question
I asked it
On FAUX HAWK'S site
But I'm curious
It seems in movies
Women who are on top
(During sex)
Are portrayed as whores
But when it comes to those
Who are on bottom
Are portrayed as
Better than
As in not whores
I can't really think of the word I'm looking for

I believe that it is
AND unrealistic portrayal of women
Women who are on top
Are usually, in my mind,
Those who are in touch with their bodies
A woman who is in touch
With her body
And knows how to cum
Is far from a whore

Do y'all know that something
Like 70% of women
Don't know how to have an orgasm?

Now that's gotta be one miserable woman
Fer fucks sake
Learn how to have an orgasm
It's almost a guarantee
THAT you would enjoy life better

/rant

The top v. bottom thing is interesting to me. 

I think it's a subliminal, although misogynistic, way of saying if women are beneath men then they're good.  If they're on top they're trying to be equal to, or above, men and are therefore bad (i.e., whores).

As for the women who don't orgasm.  Girls need to get a vibrator, vibrating egg, or The Rabbit.  Maybe the men in their lives just aren't cutting it. 
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Re: Things we wish guys knew...
« Reply #81 on: September 10, 2015, 02:35:48 PM »
@Enduser and Narkiton--just a gentle reminder that because of concerns raised by some, it's been requested that the guys refrain from posting in this thread now (except for special circumstances), please see posts starting around #50, and particularly #57 and #62.  Many thanks.
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Re: Things we wish guys knew...
« Reply #82 on: September 11, 2015, 04:22:26 AM »
Idk, i don't think it's as easy as getting a vibe. I know plenty of women who can climax but it's a 30 minute plus effort to reach. Fuck all that. If you can't get me off in under 3 minutes, you suck in bed and there is no hope for you. I even have references to this fact.  ;)

My personal opinion is how society views a woman who gets off. She must be easy if she cums like that and other such nonsense that women are looked upon. Not too mention all the hang ups one can have about their body. Women and men. It really takes shutting  off that annoying fucking voice in your head and be in the moment.


Other than that I have no qualms about what a man should know or not know. I'm lucky that I'm perfectly content with my partner. I believe we're all individuals. If I thought differently I'd be on the mindset that they're all worthless bastards, like my ex. With that option I'd either become asexual or a lesbian. Most likely the former.
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Re: Things we wish guys knew...
« Reply #83 on: September 11, 2015, 06:02:43 AM »
Andi you just made me think of something as far as how "society" affects us-remember that scene in the diner from "when Harry met Sally"?  Just about every sex scene in the movies/TV shows the woman getting off in less than a minute!  Geesh, no pressure there!

You're right about getting all the voices (& hang ups) to shut up lol. I always feel bad if I think its taking me "too long". I've decided now that however long it takes for both of us is however "long" it needs to be :D
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Re: Things we wish guys knew...
« Reply #84 on: September 11, 2015, 06:09:25 AM »
You're right about getting all the voices (& hang ups) to shut up lol. I always feel bad if I think its taking me "too long". I've decided now that however long it takes for both of us is however "long" it needs to be :D
As long as it happens and you both don't give up!
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Re: Things we wish guys knew...
« Reply #85 on: September 11, 2015, 07:44:13 AM »
Yes! And every movie it's always through penetration. The percent of women who achieve orgasm that way is even lower. It sets men and women up with unrealistic expectations.

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Re: Things we wish guys knew...
« Reply #86 on: September 11, 2015, 09:02:59 AM »
Apologies cuz my brain thinks weird when I run a fever, but too true ^^^ Andi!! 

It just struck me funny when I realized in the movies the under a minute orgasm is the ultimate humiliation for the guy, yet expected "norm" for the girl!  Talk about a double standard lol. In an odd way, I can now see what kind of pressure my guy might feel.

It's amazing how these stereotypes still linger. Can I get where I want to go quickly? Once in a while, but not usually. These scriptwriters must be thinking of Olympic style performers!
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Re: Things we wish guys knew...
« Reply #87 on: September 12, 2015, 02:29:15 AM »
Having sex on your
Period
Is just fucking nasty
I have never
Would never
Let hero fuck me
When I'm bleeding


I have a question
I asked it
On FAUX HAWK'S site
But I'm curious
It seems in movies
Women who are on top
(During sex)
Are portrayed as whores
But when it comes to those
Who are on bottom
Are portrayed as
Better than
As in not whores
I can't really think of the word I'm looking for

I believe that it is
AND unrealistic portrayal of women
Women who are on top
Are usually, in my mind,
Those who are in touch with their bodies
A woman who is in touch
With her body
And knows how to cum
Is far from a whore

Do y'all know that something
Like 70% of women
Don't know how to have an orgasm?

Now that's gotta be one miserable woman
Fer fucks sake
Learn how to have an orgasm
It's almost a guarantee
THAT you would enjoy life better

/rant

The top v. bottom thing is interesting to me. 

I think it's a subliminal, although misogynistic, way of saying if women are beneath men then they're good.  If they're on top they're trying to be equal to, or above, men and are therefore bad (i.e., whores).

As for the women who don't orgasm.  Girls need to get a vibrator, vibrating egg, or The Rabbit.  Maybe the men in their lives just aren't cutting it.



I think you are spot on with
The top v bottom thing
I had never thought about it that way.

Women need to learn how to masterbate
It's not that hard
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Re: Things we wish guys knew...
« Reply #88 on: September 15, 2015, 03:30:59 AM »
I just think I should state for the record that lesbians don't need to just get fucked right by a guy. LOL.

I have a co-worker who seems to think he can make me straight...if he keeps on I might have to hit him with a sexual harassment report, but I'm trying not to do it and just talk to him like a human being. He keeps making comments and eyeing me, it would be gross even if it was a woman.

I know this is an uncomfortable topic, sexual harassment...everyone likes a compliment...but it's really invasive and gross when you have someone invading your personal space...especially if they are physically a lot taller or larger than you. The other day the guy at work had me cornered, I was literally pressed into a corner...shiver.


I don't know if men realize how often women get suggestive or aggressive comments, you don't even really need to be hot or sexy or anything but there really are men that treat women like little more than a dick holder.

I know a lot of women in our "scene" get into really uncomfortable situations especially with drug dealers. Every male dealer I ever had basically let it be known that if I wanted to fuck for drugs it was on. Sigh. Not an advantage man, seriously. "you know if you just want to suck my dick I'll take a hundred off your tab" gag.

But I guess women have been trading pussy since the beginning of time. I'm just not sure if people realize how dehumanizing it is, or traumatic.

Also, girls are essentially told from birth that they should find a "prince charming" and pop out some kids. I'm fucking gay and am still pressured by family members and asked by others when we are going to have kids. How about fucking never? People act like there is something wrong with you for not wanting to reproduce. The last thing this world needs is a little junkette running around.

Sorry for the ramble. I know it's the 21st century but women still haven't over come their biology. I have always thought that the reason women have been subservient to men/seen as less than men is because we can get pregnant, which is basically disabling and potentially life threatening. If you think about caveman times a pregnant woman was a real liability...dependent on everyone else to survive

Sorry posted before I read no men
God guys can be stupid
But I got to say ask him if you rammed a solid in his ass
Would that make him gay
Shit like that really Fucking pisses me off
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Re: Things we wish guys knew...
« Reply #89 on: September 15, 2015, 10:46:38 AM »
The whole "I can make you straight" thing directed toward lesbians by some men (IME, usually conservative, ignorant rednecks) is really fucking stupid.

I second what Hero said: ask him if ramming a 12'' dildo up his ass would make him gay. 

Those guys are so fucking stupid that he'd probably interpret it as a proposition.  He'd think you were interested in him, and that he could somehow convince you during the process that ramming something up his ass was the wrong use of the dildo.   ::)

...........................................

DoD, I'm glad I could provide some insight. 
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