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General => General Discussion for Everybody => Topic started by: Chip on February 24, 2017, 12:20:49 PM

Title: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Chip on February 24, 2017, 12:20:49 PM
I won't go into much details but I was with my friend when she went to score some GBL.

She was given the drug in pure form and then raped, robbed and thrown out the back by someone we knew.

I found her in a near coma.

I might have prevented it but did manage some damage control. had I processed the signs properly and acted earlier, maybe this would've been averted.

the GHB/Meth scene is like no other and rarely, if ever, identified outside of the gay world. the straight version is beyond sick and twisted.

I am deeply disturbed but my friend is absolutely traumatised. HIV and STD contraction is a very real risk.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: OpiXPO on February 24, 2017, 01:54:41 PM
Like 90% of law enforcement wont care that she was trying to buy drugs when something of this level of violence happens. Any chance she'd be willing to press charges. I doubt its the first time or will be the last time something like this that mother fucker did. He'll do it again to someone else.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Chip on February 24, 2017, 02:40:53 PM
this is the best part, he had no idea that her sanctioned drug using boyfriend is also an occasional and highly effective covert operative for the drug unit and is discussing his options with his LE contacts. I normally wouldn't disclose this but the matter is too serious.

we expect he will be targeted, caught and incarcerated for dealing at the very least. we want at least some justice and I think any decent drug user can embrace this apparent conflict of interest.

we are hoping she will consent to DNA swab tests and press charges but it's looking doubtful.

he is also active in the gay community and she needs to get on PEP within 72 hours - this could have disastrous consequences for her.

this man must go down any way we can swing it.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: bignasty on February 24, 2017, 10:50:37 PM
This is more reason to release Ross William Ulbricht. This kinda shit is exactly why he created SR. It sucks that users have to deal with this sorta violence and sketchiness when the gov't could just legalize and tax everything
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Z on February 25, 2017, 12:39:30 AM
This is more reason to release Ross William Ulbricht. This kinda shit is exactly why he created SR. It sucks that users have to deal with this sorta violence and sketchiness when the gov't could just legalize and tax everything


In principle for sure, but in reality Ross got more then a little power hungry, and it clearly went to his head.  Sitting at his computer ordering murders, commisioning the abduction and beating of employees.  He might have started with some good ideas and principles, but he ended up quite far away from them.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Chip on February 25, 2017, 07:24:35 AM
i have taken certain action to help ensure that this guy is stopped.

I feel so much better, i finally feel that i can stop this from happening again.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Chip on February 25, 2017, 07:28:03 AM
This is more reason to release Ross William Ulbricht. This kinda shit is exactly why he created SR. It sucks that users have to deal with this sorta violence and sketchiness when the gov't could just legalize and tax everything

you still have the rape issue to deal with and making a drug like this available freely will only exacerbate the problem.

you CAN'T deregulate all drugs, some are just too dangerous to others.

i used to think that was the solution but after this, i can see the complications of doing so.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: OpiXPO on February 25, 2017, 11:57:55 AM
At what point does a drug become too dangerous?

Also I'm glad to hear that its been taken care of and at the least wont happen again.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Chip on February 25, 2017, 12:41:03 PM
good question. I would say when they have the same profile as Barbiturates (as in this case) and Rohypnol.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: dizzle on February 25, 2017, 02:39:31 PM
U said u went with her when she was getting it? Did u leave her at the spot? Or did u see this go down??




Regarding how dangerous is too dangerous, I don't buy that, the dude could've raped her just using his bare hands, or a weapon. The drug facilitied it but probably could've been subbed with a plethora of other drugs. Look at scopolamine. Look at tons of drugs found in nature. No one can stop all that from happening, at least not in the world we live in....


Drugs don't make bad people bad, bad people are just fucking bad.  the drugs were just the facilitator for this guy. If he didn't have that, he'd use something else.

Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Chip on February 25, 2017, 03:46:19 PM
I went with her. he wouldn't let me up and she said that he is sleazy and would be back in 5 mins which means 20.

I waited about 45 minutes then alerted staff.

afterwards she found her underpants inside out and felt pain in that area.

she had to go to hospital for bleeding.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: dizzle on February 25, 2017, 04:54:23 PM
Dude I'm so sorry u (and her) are going thru this.


That's terrible and I wish there was something I could say.


I just hope he get fucked in the ass in the joint after her copper boyfriend locks his ass up....
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Chip on February 25, 2017, 05:37:56 PM
thanks. it's had a big impact on me and I feel I have lost some innocence. feel sad and angry.

the boyfriend is not a cop but a criminal with a very interesting story. he now works occasionally with the cops to help convict the most dangerous dealers in a small part of the city. the guys that sell potent dope without warning people and many die. or sell to kids. that sort of stupidity.

but we will make sure that this guy is stopped.

I haven't slept since this went down, with or without Meth.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Z on February 26, 2017, 04:30:13 AM
the boyfriend is not a cop but a criminal with a very interesting story. he now works occasionally with the cops to help convict the most dangerous dealers in a small part of the city. the guys that sell potent dope without warning people and many die. or sell to kids. that sort of stupidity.



So an informant.  Probably makes money for every dealer he turns in.  Hypocritical police state at its best.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: OpiXPO on February 26, 2017, 09:13:20 AM
Maybe, don't forget he lives in a different country though with different norms and different Leo situations.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Z on February 27, 2017, 10:38:35 AM
For sure.  I'm not trying to judge someone without knowing anything either.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: gnossos on March 02, 2017, 03:47:19 PM
Like 90% of law enforcement wont care that she was trying to buy drugs when something of this level of violence happens. Any chance she'd be willing to press charges. I doubt its the first time or will be the last time something like this that mother fucker did. He'll do it again to someone else.

If you're fucked up in anyway on drugs/booze you administered yourself, you don't count as a victim and you deserved it. That's my experience and I've seen it everywhere. I was date raped on Halloween a few years back. Took me about a week to even realize what had happened but I reported it. The thing the cops seemed most interested in was how much I'd had to drink - asked me more questions about the details of my alcohol consumption than anything else.

That was the second time I watched my rapist go free. The police force really needs to learn how to better train there investigators on how to deal with victims of sexual violence.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Chip on March 02, 2017, 04:05:06 PM
she never pressed charges and probably sees it that way.

but it's wrong.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: OpiXPO on March 02, 2017, 04:40:09 PM
she never pressed charges and probably sees it that way.

but it's wrong.

But it was still taken care of though, right?
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: gnossos on March 02, 2017, 04:54:06 PM
she never pressed charges and probably sees it that way.

but it's wrong.

It's hard to press charges on a crime you barely remember. I feel for your friend, I've been there myself. Took me over a week to even realize what had happened.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Chip on March 02, 2017, 05:08:24 PM
she never pressed charges and probably sees it that way.

but it's wrong.

But it was still taken care of though, right?

yeah, I made an anonymous call to the best place. never done that in my life but I had to do something.

boyfriend can also initiate a buy/bust scenario but I don't know if he has yet.

I could not let this guy get away with it.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Z on March 02, 2017, 07:53:00 PM

If you're fucked up in anyway on drugs/booze you administered yourself, you don't count as a victim and you deserved it.


Seriously?  I guess that women shouldn't dress provocatively either then, huh?
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: OpiXPO on March 03, 2017, 03:10:03 AM
I think she meant that's how law enforcement feels, not as her own opinion. I had to double take too.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Z on March 03, 2017, 03:45:05 AM
Yeah, thats possible.  It doesnt seem clear so I was asking- Seriously?
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Chip on April 15, 2017, 07:56:15 AM
an update:

the girl's mother talked her out of following it up with the police (WTF ?!) and has since forced her into detox facility miles away, for the 6th time, against her wishes naturally ... she usually either escapes or gets straight back on the dope when released.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: MoeMentim on April 15, 2017, 08:13:23 AM
that's crazy.  what kind of mother would talk her daughter out of going to the police after being raped?
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Chip on April 15, 2017, 09:21:50 AM
I know ! she is very wealthy and has been paying for her habit for years, too ... she is a huge part of her daughter's problem.

her mum also doesn't believe her story and thinks it was "sex work" gone bad and since my friend has already been a victim of predators, she thinks that "it would only bring back old memories".

so the guy that did it gets away with it and my friend just has one more huge reason to keep using.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Joseph Hopeless on April 15, 2017, 10:14:54 AM
@Z...C'mon man, isn't it clear that she feels that's law enforcement's opinion and not hers? For god's sake, she then says she was date raped and the cops didn't do shit for her and belittled/questioned her story because of how much she (might have) had to drink..And then says how they treat victims of sexual abuse like shit. Not to be a dick, but seriously, how was there any confusion there?
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Z on April 15, 2017, 06:37:30 PM
Read the next two posts after mine where opixpo and I talk about that very thing.  Anyway, it's gnossos. 
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Chip on April 15, 2017, 07:19:10 PM
yep, Z is absolutely right and I can tell you that the response from the cops in this case has been one of disinterest.

if you take intoxocating drugs or alcohol and then get taken advantage of, especially if you are a female then don't expect the support that is deserved.

it's a cold world out there now. how naive was I ?! I'm appalled and surprised at how poorly everyone involved handled this tragedy.

I was the only one who went to the cops and I NEVER thought that I would ever do such a thing.

I think all of us, ALL of us feel the same way as we are often seen as second rate citizens.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Z on April 15, 2017, 11:04:43 PM
I'm not sure why I'm getting called out for a half a$- comment to a girl I've known for years. 


This is an old comment and, not to be rude, none of your concern whoever the fuck you are :p
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: OpiXPO on April 16, 2017, 02:28:39 PM
@Z...C'mon man, isn't it clear that she feels that's law enforcement's opinion and not hers? For god's sake, she then says she was date raped and the cops didn't do shit for her and belittled/questioned her story because of how much she (might have) had to drink..And then says how they treat victims of sexual abuse like shit. Not to be a dick, but seriously, how was there any confusion there?

I would have been confused and originally did think what Z said until I remembered her own story.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Joseph Hopeless on April 28, 2017, 10:54:32 AM
Alright, well, sorry Z.ur right, I mostly just lurk here(and the phile on a different name), and just saw that and thought "she's being sarcastic!", forgetting how badly my own translates on here. So my bad if u were offended, I've always liked u and forgot I'd even responded to this. Apparently I'm an alcoholic..anywho, my bad.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Z on April 28, 2017, 05:58:34 PM
No, I'm sorry.  I shouldn't have answered like that.  No excuses.
Title: Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
Post by: Anti-hero on May 01, 2017, 04:35:14 PM
Rape is such a fucked up
Thing to do to someone
I got no sympathy
For rapist
Sould cut there nuts and balls off
Even what they call date rape
Rape is rape
To violate someone like that
You never wash that off
I was raped when I was 13
Yes a fucking big bully of about 30
Got his rocks off fucking a young kid.
Sick fuck
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