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Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
« Reply #14 on: February 26, 2017, 09:13:20 AM »
Maybe, don't forget he lives in a different country though with different norms and different Leo situations.
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Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
« Reply #15 on: February 27, 2017, 10:38:35 AM »
For sure.  I'm not trying to judge someone without knowing anything either.
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Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
« Reply #16 on: March 02, 2017, 03:47:19 PM »
Like 90% of law enforcement wont care that she was trying to buy drugs when something of this level of violence happens. Any chance she'd be willing to press charges. I doubt its the first time or will be the last time something like this that mother fucker did. He'll do it again to someone else.

If you're fucked up in anyway on drugs/booze you administered yourself, you don't count as a victim and you deserved it. That's my experience and I've seen it everywhere. I was date raped on Halloween a few years back. Took me about a week to even realize what had happened but I reported it. The thing the cops seemed most interested in was how much I'd had to drink - asked me more questions about the details of my alcohol consumption than anything else.

That was the second time I watched my rapist go free. The police force really needs to learn how to better train there investigators on how to deal with victims of sexual violence.
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Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
« Reply #17 on: March 02, 2017, 04:05:06 PM »
she never pressed charges and probably sees it that way.

but it's wrong.
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Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
« Reply #18 on: March 02, 2017, 04:40:09 PM »
she never pressed charges and probably sees it that way.

but it's wrong.

But it was still taken care of though, right?
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Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
« Reply #19 on: March 02, 2017, 04:54:06 PM »
she never pressed charges and probably sees it that way.

but it's wrong.

It's hard to press charges on a crime you barely remember. I feel for your friend, I've been there myself. Took me over a week to even realize what had happened.
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Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
« Reply #20 on: March 02, 2017, 05:08:24 PM »
she never pressed charges and probably sees it that way.

but it's wrong.

But it was still taken care of though, right?

yeah, I made an anonymous call to the best place. never done that in my life but I had to do something.

boyfriend can also initiate a buy/bust scenario but I don't know if he has yet.

I could not let this guy get away with it.
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Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
« Reply #21 on: March 02, 2017, 07:53:00 PM »

If you're fucked up in anyway on drugs/booze you administered yourself, you don't count as a victim and you deserved it.


Seriously?  I guess that women shouldn't dress provocatively either then, huh?
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Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
« Reply #22 on: March 03, 2017, 03:10:03 AM »
I think she meant that's how law enforcement feels, not as her own opinion. I had to double take too.
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Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
« Reply #23 on: March 03, 2017, 03:45:05 AM »
Yeah, thats possible.  It doesnt seem clear so I was asking- Seriously?
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Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
« Reply #24 on: April 15, 2017, 07:56:15 AM »
an update:

the girl's mother talked her out of following it up with the police (WTF ?!) and has since forced her into detox facility miles away, for the 6th time, against her wishes naturally ... she usually either escapes or gets straight back on the dope when released.
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Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
« Reply #25 on: April 15, 2017, 08:13:23 AM »
that's crazy.  what kind of mother would talk her daughter out of going to the police after being raped?
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Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
« Reply #26 on: April 15, 2017, 09:21:50 AM »
I know ! she is very wealthy and has been paying for her habit for years, too ... she is a huge part of her daughter's problem.

her mum also doesn't believe her story and thinks it was "sex work" gone bad and since my friend has already been a victim of predators, she thinks that "it would only bring back old memories".

so the guy that did it gets away with it and my friend just has one more huge reason to keep using.
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Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
« Reply #27 on: April 15, 2017, 10:14:54 AM »
@Z...C'mon man, isn't it clear that she feels that's law enforcement's opinion and not hers? For god's sake, she then says she was date raped and the cops didn't do shit for her and belittled/questioned her story because of how much she (might have) had to drink..And then says how they treat victims of sexual abuse like shit. Not to be a dick, but seriously, how was there any confusion there?
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Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
« Reply #28 on: April 15, 2017, 06:37:30 PM »
Read the next two posts after mine where opixpo and I talk about that very thing.  Anyway, it's gnossos. 
« Last Edit: April 15, 2017, 06:57:03 PM by Z »
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Re: friend was raped with GBL, robbed and tossed out
« Reply #29 from previous page: April 15, 2017, 07:19:10 PM »
yep, Z is absolutely right and I can tell you that the response from the cops in this case has been one of disinterest.

if you take intoxocating drugs or alcohol and then get taken advantage of, especially if you are a female then don't expect the support that is deserved.

it's a cold world out there now. how naive was I ?! I'm appalled and surprised at how poorly everyone involved handled this tragedy.

I was the only one who went to the cops and I NEVER thought that I would ever do such a thing.

I think all of us, ALL of us feel the same way as we are often seen as second rate citizens.
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